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Will his mother ever accept me as a person? It would be better to be greeted with hug and smile, rather than 'ugh!'

Q.   I am a 24 asian woman and dating a european man for over 5 years now. But, through this 5 years, I have had a really hard time talking to his mother. And being around her makes me uncomfortable. Everytime we stopped by at her house, I rather stay in ...

A.   3 June 2008: its so hard when someone so special to him has it in for you but at the end of the day its not her in your relationship. one day she might change her feelings for you but untill then just carry on being civil for your bf sake. mothers only wan... (read in full...)

My girl has suddenly changed, is she going to split up with me?

Q.   Ok i've been with my girlfriend for over a year and a half, And during the past few month she has been increasingly getting annoyed with me at being lazy around the house(she dosnt live with me).For example she works hard, long hours and i sit on my ...

A.   3 June 2008: stress does funny things to you and turns you into i diffrent person. maybe she worried about her job to much which is effecting her behavour towards you. one thing a women hates is a lazy guy and believe me i no.its good that you made an effo... (read in full...)

Help me get over this arrogant guy!

Q.   I feel awful, recently at a party i got drunk and really humiliated myself in front of someone i care about alot. We were sort of in a relationship for a few weeks about a year and a half ago. We both wanted to end things but about a month after i ...

A.   2 June 2008: by the sounds of it he not worth it love. he should never of kissed you noing you still had feeling for him. in time you will get over him and when you do you will probably laugh about how you reacted... (read in full...)

Should I sleep with my ex boyfriend of ten years?

Q.   He was my best friend in primary school. We looked out for each other as we were both bullied, and we supported each other through our turbulent childhoods. He is two years older and he left for secondry school. I still remember running down the ...

A.   2 June 2008: hi as you said you were both young so im sure you can forgive him this time im also sure the time you been apart he done a lot of growing up. however if you value friendship more then dont go down that road. the choice is yours... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is devastated because I revealed I had a crush on another girl! Now what I can I do to repair her trust?

Q.   So here's my situation. My girlfriend and I have been dating for nearly three years. She's my best friend, I love her to death and want to spend the rest of my life with her. We've had a somewhat hard relationship, however, due to the fact that I've ...

A.   2 June 2008: youre not a terrible person and is good of you to have told her so theres no secrets between you. it will probably take hr a long time to forgive and forget. if she wants to end your relationship then theres nothing you can do. be there for her take ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend of 7 months lied to me about his age . . .

Q.   I have been dating my boyfriend for about 7 months now. We have been completely in love. It is passionate and intimate and we have talked about long term and how we are what the other hoped to find. He has been divorced for 3 years, was married for ...

A.   2 June 2008: can you live with a relationship based on a lie? do you trust him now and do you see your self having isues about it again. you have to choices and thats either forgive him and never mention it again or it will ruin your relationship in the end or ... (read in full...)

Choosing between two girls, opposites of each other...

Q.   To start off this question here is alittle background info. im 19 yrs old and i just finished my first year of college in canada and i am now staying with my parents.. i met this girl from my old high school and i started going out with her in ...

A.   2 June 2008: hi i can understand your problem and it seems to me your only getting with the other girl because its easy to. she can be there when the other one cannot but as you basically said its really not fair on the other. you need to chose dont play them. ... (read in full...)

Couldn't control our feelings, she's 12, could she become pregnant?

Q.   I am a 14 year old boy having sex with a 12 year old girl. We know that we did something wrong at this age but could not control our feelings. We are neighbours and it all started with a kiss. Then we started looking each others private parts. ...

A.   2 June 2008: the only thing you can do is a pregnancy test that will give you a definate answer. your very young and shouldnt really be experimenting at such a young age however if your going to continue you should use protection ie, condom or she should go on ... (read in full...)

I don't know if my child is my ex's or his best friend's. Should I tell my ex?

Q.   two months ago me and my boyfriend split up i was really upset and felt so down so i decided to get completly drunk one saturday night after it and bumped into my boyfriends best mate he asked me to go back 2 his 4 a drink and i did one thing lead ...

A.   2 June 2008: i think you should tell him as he has the right to no. there nothing worse for a man to bring up a baby who isnt even theres and find out about it later down the line. be honest for the sake of your child to... (read in full...)

Have I done the right thing in letting her go? I wanted her to be free to enjoy her youth...

Q.   I have just broken up with my Girlfriend of 2 yrs. I dont make a habbit of this, but she was considerably younger than me... 8 yrs juniour. I have just turned 27 and she has just turned 19. She and I were not just lovers but best friends. We love...

A.   2 June 2008: hi i think what your doing is a good unselfish thing to do its just shes to in love with you. however now your doubting your desion. do you see her in your life with her right now?or in the future. its a hard desion and i think you should have time ... (read in full...)

He cheated on me twice and the idea he could do it again behind my back is constantly on my mind!

Q.   my boyfriend (met on the internet) cheated on me twice once was just a kiss but the second time was sex and he did it with his ex he says he loves me and i broke up with him but then we got back together but people (my family, frineds)keep telling ...

A.   2 June 2008: dont do it to yourself. Men can say they love you but how can they if they cheat on you twice. A kiss can be forgiven even counted as a big mistake but then sleeping with another girl, thats just taking the piss. if you dont trust him leave him ... (read in full...)

When he loses control he smashes things and sometimes hurts me. I hate this, but how can I help him?

Q.   My boyfriend is a very violent person, if we have an argument and he feels he's lost control of the situation he will resort to scaring me by smashing things and sometimes he'll hurt me. I hate him for it, but I do love him. I know everyone will ...

A.   2 June 2008: hi there i totally understand why your with him but sometimes love isnt enough. If you loved him you would help him but being apart. If your there your just giving him temptation to hurt you and its not helping either of you. He needs your support ... (read in full...)

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