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I kissed someone else.. I just wanted to be loved

Q.   I went to a party saturday with my theatre group, I havn't seen my boyfriend in a few weeks- well I have but we havn't been intimate in ages. At the party I stayed over and one of my guy friends started kissing me.. and I just couldn't stop myself. ...

A.   5 November 2010: u r very young & need to go c what's out there. do what ur heart tells u do a pros & cons do what is RIGHT for u not any1 else good luck... (read in full...)

Am I crazy for not wanting my girlfriend to have guy friends

Q.   Am i crazy for not wanting my girlfriend to have guy friends. she told me before that she doesnt want guy friends but she recently decided that she wants to start haging out with guys. she thinks i dont trust her but i do. We've been together 5 ...

A.   5 November 2010: yes u r i understand it might be hard but she needs 2 have her freedom as well she needs friends of both genders & u guys should talk about ur days & how u spend it with friends i think u & her both having ur own social life will do get & have ... (read in full...)

How do I ask my girlfriend to send me nude pics?

Q.   Ok so me and my girlfriend have been dating for a while and I really like her and she really likes me, but how do I ask her to send me nude pictures of herself or should I even ask at all thanx in advance....

A.   5 November 2010: don't ask 2 yung... (read in full...)

In debt, want to buy a house, I'm 27 and living at home, and feeling like a loser.

Q.   I really feel stuck in a financial rut. I want to be able to own a house, be debt free, have a great salary and afford all the things I want...But I am slowly paying off a loan (should be paid off by March 2011), I have just had a career change so ...

A.   5 November 2010: don't worry stick out u'll eventually get thru :] good luck!... (read in full...)

When it's just us, he's friendly, does he like me?

Q.   This guy I've liked for a while has been showing signs of liking me back. The other night, for a class field trip, we went downtown to a play. We ended up staying together the entire time, which is atypical. It seems like we always kind of split ...

A.   5 November 2010: okay so he might like & is just realllllly scared 2 speak 2 u in front of his friends b|C ur so pretty or he is... just a guy who likes the chase? sorry to say but a guy who likes shouldn't be afraid to talk 2 u in front of his friends & should be ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend and I are taking a break. But he doesn't stop calling me

Q.   So... My boyfriend and I are taking a break. But he doesn't stop calling me. HE decided to take a break to think about things. He needs to thinks about what he wants, and get his head sorted out cause he noticed after nine months that this wa...

A.   5 November 2010: LOL! sorry but looks like he misses u a lot. LOL & u being Okay about the break kind of scared him. & he definitely should not be afraid 2 commit guys just lack that & he shouldn't put u through that. I suggest u don't answer his calls once in ... (read in full...)

He's distant, won't look me in the eyes, only gives me one-word answers and doesn't really talk to me.

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months. Just this weekend I had a text on saturday saying 'down at the pub for a party, miss you loads and love you more than ever xxxxxx' This sort of message isn't uncommon for him, He likes to tell me how much ...

A.   5 November 2010: Hi, Okay ur situation seems like it can go 2 ways actually. 1 would be that he found out u cheated on him or hurt or something & is SUPER UPSET @ what u have done. The 2nd way is that maybe he probably just wants to see what else is out there. A br... (read in full...)

He's distant, won't look me in the eyes, only gives me one-word answers and doesn't really talk to me.

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months. Just this weekend I had a text on saturday saying 'down at the pub for a party, miss you loads and love you more than ever xxxxxx' This sort of message isn't uncommon for him, He likes to tell me how much ...

A.   5 November 2010: Hi, Okay ur situation seems like it can go 2 ways actually. 1 would be that he found out u cheated on him or hurt or something & is SUPER UPSET @ what u have done. The 2nd way is that maybe he probably just wants to see what else is out there. A br... (read in full...)

Why does he bother to say he'll change when he doesn't even make the effort?

Q.   i have been on and off with my partner for 7years because he has cheated,lied,and wudnt take on the responsibility of a father and was a selfish partner.every time i would leave him,he would come looking for me some time later.i have 3 kids with ...

A.   5 November 2010: heyy i am sorry 4 the late response i hope things got better but if it didn't i strongly do recommend u have a seriously SERIOUS TALK 1 LAST TIME with him IF U WANT 2 TRY IT AGAIN. if ur fed up just leave he will realize how good he has it. :] hope ... (read in full...)

Why does he bother to say he'll change when he doesn't even make the effort?

Q.   i have been on and off with my partner for 7years because he has cheated,lied,and wudnt take on the responsibility of a father and was a selfish partner.every time i would leave him,he would come looking for me some time later.i have 3 kids with ...

A.   3 October 2010: Ok so this man does not have any reason to be doing anything repeatedly of something that is bothering u a lot. I would say try having a VERY SERIOUS conversation with him & tell him everything u just said now. Try it one more time & see if he keeps ... (read in full...)

Will she ever wake up and realize what she has?

Q.   I recently broke up with my gf or 5 yrs. It's about the 15th time or so that this has happened very possibly for the last time. She has major men issues. She has never had 1 positive male role model in her life. I had sent most of or time proving to ...

A.   3 October 2010: She sounds just like what I was. It's just that men have hurt her so much she is afraid she opens up to u she will get hurt. But on the other hand she wants to be with u (or so it seems from what u wrote). It's going to take A LOT of will power but ... (read in full...)

Could two unknown people have the exact same room?

Q.   My boyfriend has been acting weird lately. Like he doesn't care and seems uninterested in me. So i started thinking he is seeing some other girl and decided to snoop in his email. I found pictures of naked girls i his inbox and outbox pictures ...

A.   3 October 2010: Thank u everyone so much, U have helped a lot. I finally got him to confess the next day & told me everything. He seemed really ashamed of it & said sorry many times. So i decided to 4give him since i DO CARE A LOT & we agreed to be honest about ... (read in full...)

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