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I'm married but very attracted to a co-worker...so ashamed of the way I feel.

Q.   I'm a married guy, that has been in a very loving stable relationship with my wife for over 10 years. We have a young child. My dilemma is that i have fallen deeply for a much younger co-worker. I do not know how this girl feels about me but i am ...

A.   8 December 2005: Well your feelings seem to be very strong for this woman therefore I would be seriously considering re-evaluating your marriage. I would never want to be with a man that had such strong feelings for someone else because yes in a way you are ... (read in full...)

We separated temporarily...and he slept with another woman. How do I deal with this?

Q.   my partner and i have been together five years. 2 years ago we had a seriously bad patch and the time i decided i no longer loved him and we decided to temporarily separate. i knew he had connections with a woman at work, but he only confessed ...

A.   8 December 2005: Well first of all you have to find out how he feels about this other woman. Does he want to be with her now or was it just a spur of the moment thing that meant nothing. What would concern me is if he still has feelings for her and how secure ... (read in full...)

When my wife enjoys the attention of another man, I feel threatened, even though I know she wouldn't cheat...

Q.   What is considered normal as far as enjoying attention from members of the opposite sex, while married? Is it normal to be flattered if you know somebody is attracted to you and you enjoy it? If someone approaches my wife in a ...

A.   8 December 2005: Did you go to the bar together? Let me get this straight. You are both in the bar together and she's being approached by other men that are chatting her up and then she dances with them? I definitely don't think thats right. It sounds as if she ... (read in full...)

Can I cope on my own when I'm expecting two babies?

Q.   Hello, I am in a right pickle. My boyfriend told me he didnt want to know when he learnt I was pregnant and has disappeared to another town: nobody knows where he has gone. I am a lone parent with thre teenagers, and had been with this man over a ...

A.   8 December 2005: Hmm, where do I start. I dont know which part of the world you live in but surely there is help for you in some way. You can't depend on him thats for sure even though he may show up once the babies arrive. Did you bring up your teenagers by ... (read in full...)

I am not attracted to my wife physically..should I have sex with an old gf?

Q.   I love my wife very much and would never want to hurt her. We get along very well and are very connected, except for one area: sex. I am no longer attracted to her physically. In the meantime, an old girlfriend of mine has contacted me and really ...

A.   8 December 2005: You are pathetic. Men like you are the reason that women become insecure and jealous in relationships. If you want to go with this female then tell your wife and end it and move on with your life. Let her find someone better than you that finds ... (read in full...)

My current gf told me to choose between my two daughters! What can I do?

Q.   I have 2 children to different mothers! one child is 7 one child is 7 months. I met my girlfriend 3 years ago. Our relationship was great and i looked after my 7 year old child every second weekend, but as soon as my other child was born my ...

A.   8 December 2005: Okay, were you cheating on your girlfriend of three years and thats how you got someone else pregnant? If you have been with her for three years but have a 7month old with someone else it doesn't take much to figure out that something happened. I ... (read in full...)

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