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He says he wants me in his life, but also says he doesn't know what love is!

Q.   hi, i have been in a relationship from 8 months. he keeps me happy, he is caring, responsible and loving at the same time. From one month back we are in long distance and meet each other after 15 days approx. Now he says "I have the same feelings ...

A.   12 July 2014: It sounds to me like things are most likely simply moving to fast for him. Just because he's not ready to say he Loves you now doesn't mean he never will.... (read in full...)

I'm so damned awkward I don't know how to make friends!

Q.   I have no clue how to make friends. Its not that I have never had friends because I have, but its always been a struggle. Out of the 5 friends I do have, I have had most them forever. And I'm only friends with them cuz they pushed their way into my ...

A.   12 July 2014: My first year of college, I only really through my roommate. They were likeable people, but I haven't kept in touch with them since we never really had much in common. Then my second year I joined a club for an activity I was really interested in. ... (read in full...)

Guys, would you initiate/maintain physical contact with a girl you aren't interested in?

Q.   I am not sure what to make of my crush's physical signals. Guys, would you initiate/maintain physical contact with a girl you aren't interested in? This guy I like is sort of a friend of a friend, so I know him, and we've gotten to know each oth...

A.   11 July 2014: I agree with the last bit of advice. I struggled for years with being brave enough to tell someone that I have feelings for them. A guy can like you, potentially a lot, and sometimes show no signs at all. If you want a relationship with this guy, ... (read in full...)

Am I still a Virgin?

Q.   Hey me and my boyfriend were having fun kissing and stuff so we got to this point were we were taking off our clothes,he wanted to put his penis in but it was so sore so he tried to put half of his penis in I didn't experience any bleeding but my ...

A.   11 July 2014: The term "virgin" has no real medical bearing. If you are asking whether your are physically a virgin, there is no such thing, as it is possible for a woman to have sex without damaging her hymen, and also possible, though uncommon, for a hymen to ... (read in full...)

He only put the tip in. Am I still a virgin?

Q.   I don't know if I'm a virgin or not.. Help? I was with him and he kept fingering me and tryed to make it easier for him to get it in.. Well, when he tryed to put it in It definitely hurt. He told me he only got the tip.in and that's all.. But I ...

A.   11 July 2014: "Virgin" is a term with no real medical bearing. If you're concerned whether you are physically a virgin, there is really no such thing. It is very possible for a woman to have sex for the first time without any damage to the hymen, and sometimes ... (read in full...)

Lost contact with my crush

Q.   I'm preoccupied about a man I used to work with. We were good friends and he showed me many signs that he was interested. We talked a few months after I left. However, since then - we have lost contact. We have no way to talk. I can't look h...

A.   11 July 2014: I don't think continuing to simply "be hopeful" is the right answer, but that doesn't mean you should give up hope. If he never told you he had feelings for you, it's unlikely he will, whether he has them or not. You need to either take the oppo... (read in full...)

I want my crush to notice me more and talk to me.

Q.   Hi, I'm hoping you can help me out. I'm 15 years old and there's this boy in my year. I don't really know him that well but we have mutual friends. The craziest thing is I can't stop thinking about him, I get butterflies everytime I see him and I ...

A.   11 July 2014: You've gotten some good advice already, but I thought I should add that once you've gotten the chance to talk to him a bit, you might have to just tell him how you feel. When I was you're age, I was a very shy boy, and still am to some extent. ... (read in full...)

I still like girls but find myself drawn to him ....

Q.   Hello, all! Recently, I have found myself falling for a good friend of mine. We've been friends for a little over a year, but we just got super close about 6 months ago. He had a girlfriend for a while, but she was terrible to him- he is such a ...

A.   11 July 2014: First off, you shouldn't think of it as changing yourself. There is no reason to strictly adhere to your sexual identity unless you really want to. I identified as straight until my early twenties, but when I finally was comfortable and open ... (read in full...)

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