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I'm a 38 yr old divorced mother of 3.I'm from Asheville N.C. I seem to be everyone's dear Abby that knows me and can fix most of their relationship problems but when it comes to my own I flunk!I have a new guy in my life much younger but he's great.What makes me tick I would have to say is my love for everything and everyone.I have never met a stranger.I'm usually very level headed except when it comes to love because I think if you have love you've got the world in the palm of your hand.There's nothing I wouldn't do for the right guy.

I've been thinking about this for 3 years, now I need your help... Should I tell this girl I like her more than a friend?

Q.   Ok so I need some help. I really like this woman. Shes 24, and I just recently turned 19. I met her when we worked together, that was 3 years ago. I've found different jobs, but we still get together every two weeks for lunch. Heck she and I went ...

A.   18 July 2006: nothing ventured nothing gained i say so go for it tell her what's on your mind.if you spend enough time together and get along so well the age thing won't matter after awhile.my guy is 11 yrs younger ,to me it's just a number.she may surprise you ... (read in full...)

Do women like recieving oral sex?

Q.   I really like this one girl, And I'm going to ask her out soon. But what I really fantasize about is giving HER oral sex. I couldn't really care less about her doing anything to me (Although I certainly wouldn't mind it :D ) Is this OK? Or am I ...

A.   18 July 2006: let me just say maybe you should focus on asking her out first and see where it goes and not focus on the sex part so much.sex will come in due time and be worth the wait.now to answer your question,yes the majority of women do like receiving oral ... (read in full...)

We were together 5 years but she says her heart and head are telling her different things - what does that mean!?

Q.   When someone says 'their heart is telling them one thing, but their head is telling them another' - what does it really mean? Me and my ex have been split up for 3 months (after been together over 5 years)...i want her back and she tells me her...

A.   18 July 2006: maybe you should just sit her down and ask her why her head doesn't agree with her heart.i had this happen to me once and my reason was i love him with my heart but in my head i knew he wasn't right for me.so my head won the arguement.this may not ... (read in full...)

My bf called my parents vulgar names in front of me! Is this disrespect for me?

Q.   Am I overreacting? My bf came to visit me recently and met my parents. However, due to our interracial relationship and culture difference, they did not get along. Instead of being concerned about the well being of me and the relationship between ...

A.   18 July 2006: dump him honey! If he has that much disrespect for your family and you too it seems then he isn't worth your time.I would never date someone who is disrespectful to my family and me.if he loved you your request for a gift would have been met and not ... (read in full...)

My gf of 10 months has not given me a blow job in 3 weeks! Is this normal?

Q.   my girlfriend of 10 month's as not given me a blow job in 3 week's is this normal? i've been down on her so many time's and she just given me hand job's....

A.   18 July 2006: Maybe you should talk to her about it and find out why she isn't responding to you the way you are to her.maybe she was only doing it at first because you like it and she doesn't really like doing it herself.You will never know unless you open up to ... (read in full...)

Really confused about this girl!

Q.   ok, first of all, i'm gay, just so that you don't get confused. moving along, here's the story...one of my friends and i met back about six months ago. and when we first started talking, i found out from her that she used to have a huge crush on ...

A.   17 July 2006: sounds to me like she has the problem knowing what she wants not you.don't play her game stop the childish banter on and off the phone but tell her seriously how you feel.if you don't talk to her it may never get resolved.on top of that she may be ... (read in full...)

I am having doubts about my relationship

Q.   Okay I was just wondering about my relationship...From time to time I seem to get a weird feeling that im losing faith in my relationship. I have been going out with my girlfriend now for over 7 months.....For a couple of weeks I seem to feel really ...

A.   17 July 2006: what you're feeling is perfectly normal so don't worry.all relationships go hot and cold at times.why not try suggesting some new things the 2 of you haven't done and explore them together.it will spice up the relationship and maybe even bring you ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend's family talk about everything!

Q.   Subject: A difference between a couple... Over the course of my relationship I have heard many strange things from my girlfriend which have left me feeling a bit uncomftable...Such as: She knows about her brothers sex life.. Her mum tal...

A.   17 July 2006: my own family was so reserved when i was young that i was afraid to ask about sex and grew up dumb so when i did get to experiment everything scared me.be glad they are so open and honest.it just may make for a better,healthier sex life for both of ... (read in full...)

How to tell someone that your divorced and have kids?

Q.   How do you tell the guy you just started talking to that you are divorced and have two kids? ...

A.   17 July 2006: you just started talking right? there is no better time to clue him in on the children.just bring it up in general conversation.if he's worth your time he won't mind if he does mind he's not worthy of you.and furthermore if you want to begin a ... (read in full...)

Love, lust - what is it?

Q.   I was just wandering how you know if your in love or not...I have been with my girlfriend for 7 months and over 2 weeks now...Does love vary from different people? I respect and care for my girlfriend a lot...I always have too know if she is home ...

A.   17 July 2006: well it sounds to me like you're in love.when you love someone you worry about their safety and want to spend your free time with them.it doesn't sound like lust to me.sounds like she is one lucky girl to have someone who cares for her so deeply.if ... (read in full...)

Does he love me yet?

Q.   A question for the guys: I have been seeing my boyfriend for four months now. We ge on realy well and he is always telling how much he cares for me and wants to always spend time with me and hopes we g out for a long time! Can you tell me how i ...

A.   17 July 2006: The easiest way to tell if he loves you already is the eyes.The eyes never lie.Sounds like he does love you if he wants to spend all hi free time with you and hopes you keep going out for a long time.Be patient though don't push. Guys enjoy the ... (read in full...)

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