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I don't love him now. He never takes me out. He lies to me. I feel he's dangerous too. How can I safely get him out of my life?

Q.   Hi all I just need an advice on how to get rid of a very dangerous boyfriend in my life. My problem is I don’t love him anymore and when I tell him the true he fights with and ask me question like am I dating someone. I’ve tried to be honest wit...

A.   30 March 2013: Unfortunately, I really don't know anything about what to do about a violent boyfriend. I hope I never find out. I'm sorry you're going through this. :( Get rid of the guy. Tell him it's over. If you are too scared to, pack your things, leave, a... (read in full...)

Still a virgin. Is this normal? It’s not sex that I’m looking for, just some companionship

Q.   Hey guys, I have a question regarding virginity. I know is a question that’s probably asked a lot, but I wanna know if what I’m feeling is stupid or normal. I’ve just turned 20 and I’m still a virgin. I’ve never been kissed, never had any interest...

A.   14 October 2012: Don't worry. This doesn't sound whiney at all. :) I'm 17, and also a virgin. Like you, I've never had sex, never been kissed, never held hands with a boy - I guess I'm a virgin in every sense of the word. I've liked guys whom haven't seemed t... (read in full...)

Should I text or call her today/

Q.   For a while now, I've been going to a local coffee shop where this really cute girl works. I finally built up the balls to ask her for her number, and we exchanged numbers. We were texting for a while yesterday, and next Wednesday (5 says from now) ...

A.   17 August 2012: I would just call or text her, but be casual about it so you don't come across as obsessive or something like that. ;D Just casually mention the upcoming lunch, ask her if she's looking forward to it, how she is, what she's doing, etc, but keep it ... (read in full...)

Do I have a right to make my ex delete intimate pictures and videos of me?

Q.   I've just split up with my boyfriend and I asked him to delete any private pictures he took of me and embarrassingly a video. He thinks I have no right to ask him to do that as it was for him. To be honest he seems a bit obsessed with me, he keeps ...

A.   16 August 2012: In my opinion, as the photos/video contains your body then it's your right. I would try and become a little tougher with him, although of course I don't know how you've been with him already. I'd demand that he delete the photos and show you some ... (read in full...)

What is the best way to tell my boyfriend our relationship is over?

Q.   Hie.I have a boyfriend who is 2 years younger than me and we have been together for two years now.i met another man who is married and said he is having problems with his wife and started having an affair.he said they will break up soon so as to...

A.   16 August 2012: I think that before you rush into anything, you should be absolutely certain that the other man is definitely leaving his wife for you. I don't mean to offend you by this, it's just I've read so many stories about 'the other woman' who has to wait ... (read in full...)

How do I get my ex to pay back what he owes me?

Q.   I've just had a nasty break up with an ex (he cheated). anyway over the years he has borrowed £1750 from me which is a hell of a lot of money. he's always said he'd pay it back, but never seemed to do so. i dont think he has realised how much its ...

A.   16 August 2012: I'm sorry to hear that you are hurting over this situation. Personally I don't think you should ever let to money go. I think it's great that you are being sympathetic towards his low wage. You could suggest that he pay it back in instalments. If ... (read in full...)

We haven't had physical contact since we married, could he be cheating?

Q.   i have been married for eight years love my husband to bits but we have not had any physical contact since we got married, is this normal? do you think he is having sex with someone else, i feel like i have turned into his mother, i really feel i ...

A.   15 August 2012: Wow. I don't mean to hurt you honey, but 8 years with no physical contact is a long time. I don't think that's normal. However it doesn't mean he's cheating! Perhaps he just isn't a very sexual person? I think you need to have a sit-down with you... (read in full...)

My man on the side says it hurts him to think of my husband and I in the house together. Could that be true?

Q.   I have been in a long term (14 yr) relationship and have two children. I married just 8 months ago. I have met another guy and have been secretly seeing him for 5 months of this marriage. I feel terrible and have tried telling my husband that we ...

A.   15 August 2012: I think your man on the side is hurting. Whether he knew you were married or not before you two got involved, it will upset him that you're officially somebody else's and not his. I wouldn't do anything too rash. You must consider your children... (read in full...)

I realized life is short, made a bucket list but don't have the money to do things!

Q.   I don't really know how to say all this but, I'm 17 and would like a little advice. In May 2011 I almost lost my mother, she was fighting for her life and thankfully made it! In November 2011, I lost my grandad, this was a complete shock a...

A.   15 August 2012: Hey, First-off, I know exactly how you feel. We found out that my nana has cancer and has months to live earlier this year. Then, just over a month ago, my grandad died, totally unexpectedly. I'm so sorry for your loss. :( I think it's great t... (read in full...)

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