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He doesn't trust my male best friend

Q.   I've been in this relationship for this guy for around 2 weeks now. he is the kind of guy that every girl wants to be with, the absolute macho man.teh bad boy, the kind of guy every girl wants. so he has a alot of girl "friends" which seems like a ...

A.   25 June 2010: tell him that it isn't fair. because that isn't fair at all, he shouldn't be controlling like that, if you want to go, go. and tell him your reason for why you want to go, he's probably just a bit insecure about himself, so make sure he knows ho... (read in full...)

She broke up with me and I'm devastated

Q.   My girlfriend broke up with me last night and I honestly don't know what to do...she was the only thing going right up untill now. I'm still in shock, we live pretty far away and she told me online that she didn't think it was working out but wanted ...

A.   25 June 2010: sorry, i really feel for you, my ex- boyfriend did that a few months back + it was such a shock that i wasn't expecting, at first i was stupid and kinda begged him back :/ but a few months on i have a new guy in my life + i've never been happier,... (read in full...)

He's leaving and I don't know what I'll do

Q.   I've worked with a guy for nearly a year. I've been there for him during a really rough patch and have helped him through all his work assessments etc. He always teases me and I'm so fond of him. He's now told me that due to a problem his daughter ...

A.   25 June 2010: well you don't really have a choice.. i'm sure he isn't calm about it, but he probably thinks there's no point being upset about it because he has to go, family always comes first. you can't really ask him to stay :/ and unless you want to move wit... (read in full...)

Would it be wrong of me to see two different men?

Q.   I was involved with a married man a little over a year ago. (His wife knew and approved of the relationship.) He went away for work so I began to persued another relationship with a different man. The second man and myself are in what can be ...

A.   1 June 2010: ask yourself if guy1 is worth the wait? if he is then wait.. if not then don't wait, but don't see two men at the same time it'll just get messy.... (read in full...)

He's threatening to post nude pictures of me on the net!!!

Q.   My ex and I broke up over a month ago. We had many issues, he was controlling and too jealous, always thought the worst of me and called me names, didn't trust me at all. He's been obsessively checking out my Facebook profile. I blocked him and ...

A.   1 June 2010: ouch, nude photos, how low of him. well there's 3 ways of going about this. 1.] ask him to not put the photos up. reading what you wrote this doesn't seem like an option he'll agree too. 2.] threaten him with something. got any nude... (read in full...)

Would it be wrong of me to see two different men?

Q.   I was involved with a married man a little over a year ago. (His wife knew and approved of the relationship.) He went away for work so I began to persued another relationship with a different man. The second man and myself are in what can be ...

A.   1 June 2010: do not ever see two men at the same time. imagine if both of them the men were seeing another woman as well as you.. it's not nice. you don't seem particularly in love with the guy getting a divorce.. just because he wants to be with you.. isn't ... (read in full...)

I have a fear of eating with acquaintances!

Q.   Before I explain my problem, I'd just like to clear up one little thing: I don't have an eating disorder, I'm a healthy weight, and I love love love to eat, most of the time. With that in mind, even I'm finding it difficult to believe tha...

A.   1 June 2010: hmmm weird. well i hate eating around anyone who isn't family.. but it doesn't scare me as such. it doesn't sound like an eating disorder because you want the food, maybe you're just a bit self-conscious in this area ? maybe you've gotten so us... (read in full...)

How can I make his birthday picnic more special?

Q.   So, I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and I really love him. Well, his birthday is coming up and since it's going to be June and I don't really have a lot of money to spend, I want to surprise him by taking him to the beach and ...

A.   30 May 2010: aaw that's so cute! i doubt he'll care what the food tastes like. but defintely make a nice cake, like a sponge with jam or buy one if that's not your forte. some berries would look nice with it. strawberries/ blackberries/ raspberries. mayb... (read in full...)

I'm worried I might have got my girlfriend pregnant!

Q.   Ok so one day like two weeks ago me and my gf were playing around and I ended up ejaculating(didn't wash off)..I urinated twice before the next morning when we were messing around again and I was rubbing my penis on her vagina(no penetration) and ...

A.   30 May 2010: it's a possibility. she may just be overthinking it and therefore feeling the effects. buy a pregnancy test NOW. before it's too late, unless you are ready for the child..... (read in full...)

I really love him and want him back, what should I do?

Q.   ok im a 15 year old girl. i really miss my ex boyfriend ( we have been separated nearly a year) and i cant get over him. we had been going out about 4 months when my depression got a lot worse and i ran away a few times. i had previously been ...

A.   30 May 2010: well everything happens for a reason. and remember you dumped him. he probably just doesn't want to be hurt anymore and you should respect that and move on. you'll find someone new + break up with them and then another new person and break up wit... (read in full...)

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