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How long does someone wait?

Q.   I was dating a guy for about six months. Everything was wonderful. He had been divorced for about 9 years and me 10. We have much in common, including work, religious views, money etc. One night, he got quite and told me that he has been in love ...

A.   29 September 2007: It seems that you really love this man but he's treating you disrespectful. He has to choose but maybe he can't at the moment. Than you have to decide if you want to be with a man who is waiting for someone else. He can't expect you to wait. Take ... (read in full...)

Did offering my girlfriend the world bore her, and make her want to search for a "Challenge" elsewhere???? Do Women really think this way!?!?!?!?

Q.   I lost my girlfriend after 3 happy years together. I'm the type of guy who would have done anything for her. Moved the stars themselves just to be with her... And yet, I've recently heard that maybe this was why she left me! According to a ...

A.   29 September 2007: You seems to be a really nice guy! And I can ensure you that girls wanted to be taken care of. I don't think that your ex-girlfriend left you because you would do anything for her. Maybe she was trying to get clear what she wanted and expected of ... (read in full...)

My bf told me he slept with a married woman 14 years ago, should we continue this if our moral compasses are so far apart?

Q.   My boyfriend slept with a married woman about 14 years ago at work. He wants to forget about it but since he has told me, it practically broke up the relationship because it is something I would NEVER do (I've always thought people who do this are ...

A.   22 September 2007: I agree with rcn... You need to cut it loose. It 's 14 years ago and it has nothing to do with who he is now. ... (read in full...)

Should I shave "down there" for him?

Q.   I'm 15 and I wanna let a guy go down there. I want to shave but I don't because I don't have the right equipment and I don't wanna pay the consequences. The boy I'm planning it with really likes me and I like him and I know he really does because ...

A.   22 September 2007: I agree shaving or not shaving, it's a woman's choice. What do you want? ... (read in full...)

She cheated on me when drunk, she doesn't know I know. She says I'd have to get used to her, because that's the way she is.

Q.   hi im have a problem with my girlfreind in that she drinks a lot of alchohol and even drinks in the morning on vodka, she smokes,does canabis, and will out drink most men!, and has cheated on me when drunk although she doesnt know i know. but she ...

A.   22 September 2007: She said: "that's the way I am, get used to it" Well, in a good relationship you can be yourself but you also try to take care of your partner. You give her the chance to be herself but you cannot count on her! ... (read in full...)

I saw the empty packing, he said he threw the condoms away because the date had expired, but it had not! Does he cheat on me, or I am exaggerating?

Q.   Hi, does my boyfriend cheat on me? A while ago I've found some empty packing of condoms in the dirt bin at his house. He said that he threw the condoms away because the date had expired and he wanted to be sure that we would have save sex. I find t...

A.   22 September 2007: I want to thank everyone who answerred my question! I really appreciate it!... (read in full...)

I saw the empty packing, he said he threw the condoms away because the date had expired, but it had not! Does he cheat on me, or I am exaggerating?

Q.   Hi, does my boyfriend cheat on me? A while ago I've found some empty packing of condoms in the dirt bin at his house. He said that he threw the condoms away because the date had expired and he wanted to be sure that we would have save sex. I find t...

A.   22 September 2007: Thank you for your answer!... (read in full...)

My ex is still in love with me and I feel sympathy for another boy who also asked me for a date. How do I know if I love the ex?

Q.   I once dated this one guy for a while, then broke up. He is still in love with me though, and asked me out again. I feel sympathy for another person who asked me on a date as well. It is all so confusing! How do I know if I love my ex-boyfriend? ...

A.   22 September 2007: Go out with your ex and talk with him... (read in full...)

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