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Does age matter when he's a young adult and I'm a teenager?

Q.   hey well i met this guy over 3 months and he has a girlfriend but he inst spending anytime with her because she lives in another state and they aren't spending time together because he goes t college.. then here i am and i never had feeling for ...

A.   15 April 2009: Yes it is the age I had the dame thing buy mine 3 years but guy don't just like young girl because your hot sexy and u are young but also your the first girl he look at ... (read in full...)

I want us to be more than friends but I'm confused.

Q.   This boy that I've known since September has been close and friendly but sometimes distant. I'm trying to be more than friends but I don't have much time left with him only one year then I go to college. I think he knows I like him but I'm not sure. ...

A.   14 April 2009: I'm the same I meet a girl and I was shy to but I say text him or get him alone and ask him out he will say yes if u said he like u before good luck ... (read in full...)

My shyness criples me. How do I get over it?

Q.   Am a boy of 18, I finished secondary school education last year, now am a 100 level in engineering. My problem is shyness, I need a girlfriend but it would not allow me. I opportunities of having but this shyness does not allow. Please tell me what ...

A.   12 April 2009: Am the same way with only girl I took me 8 day to say it right to her LOL I would try talking to your self in the mirror and try it on a girl and then try it on a girl u like that's all I got good luck sorry if this does work... (read in full...)

I want to liven it up!

Q.   i'm 13 and currently in a relationship for about for months, i love her and she loves me. is there anyway to move my relationship on or liven it up??? as it has got a bit boring, btw she is a bit shy but mostly not. look forward to your feedback...

A.   12 April 2009: Am 13 to I would hold hands and maybe kiss her more now on no sex got that No sex but I would stay with her long and maybe meet her someone where for a lunch I do I go to the park and set it up and call her but call her first and surprise her good ... (read in full...)

Should I back off a bit and wait for him to talk to me?

Q.   there is this guy I've known forever and we've recently started talking on-line again. i always seem to be the one who starts the conversation but when we get talking we'll talk for hours, should i back off a bit and wait for him to talk to me? ...

A.   12 April 2009: I do the same I talk to a girl I like a lot for hours I would let him start once maybe ask a question and then he answer it or maybe he not picturing that u like him or he talk to other people I say try to let him start it by saying hi do u have any ... (read in full...)

Why is my interest in men so strange?

Q.   Well, there's a guy at school, and he's my best friend. He sees me as nothing more than a buddy, but I see him as the most amazing, funny, and hottest guy in the whole school. Were really close and were always there for each other, but everyone ...

A.   12 April 2009: Well I say go for the guy in your school because the other guy to far away and he twice your age the guy in your school Is good for u try to do something that he like or ask him out at lunch or when he alone most likely he say yes. What u need to do ... (read in full...)

My sister's b/f is super jealous. What should she do?

Q.   This is for my sister. Her boyfriend and her got into a fight. He doesn't want her to talk to his best friend cuz he is jealous. She wants to still talk but now he gets super mad. He cries on the phone to make her feel bad, but she really want...

A.   12 April 2009: Personnally I'm a guy but if I was a girl not I wouldn't take stuff like that if my gf did that Tell him straight off that he's just a friend if he can't deal with that Is he truely what she wants????... (read in full...)

I want to move to where my g/f will be studying, 300 miles away. How do I go about this?

Q.   Hey I am 18 and life in Northwest England i currently work in a bar and have recently finished an IT course, my Girlfriend wants to go to uni this September in Plymouth which is something like 200-300 miles away and i fear that we wont be able ...

A.   12 April 2009: Well why should talk about it with her and see what she does if she say yes but you don't now what to do get a ride and go see her on your days off... (read in full...)

I turned him down when he asked me out, now I regret it. Is it too late?

Q.   So there's this guy, he's funny, cheeky, upfront, loud and just great fun to be around. Lately we've become best mates and I noticed he'd been sniffing around me for a few weeks but I'd never really thought about him like that. Recently he split up ...

A.   12 April 2009: That's a good question what you said to me is good, that boy still loves you. I bet and when you come back to school I think you should say I'd like to go out with you because I had time to think about what you said and most likely he will say yes. ... (read in full...)

I was just wondering generally do MOST men cheat?

Q.   I was just wondering generally do MOST men cheat? I blame my male friends for making me have this opinion because as lovely as they all are and as much as they love their gfs, they have all cheated at some point and don't seem to think that it is...

A.   12 April 2009: You are right boys/men do cheat because they want more, but not all of them, it's a road a boy and girl take a lot but if he loves you a lot and you love him I don't think he'd cheat on you and if he does ask him why he is being a dush and doing ... (read in full...)

I'm torn between them both and don't know who to choose!

Q.   Help again please! I have said before I turned 16 two weeks ago and I lost my gf to another lad and I was crushed. I think I rebounded onto a mate of hers and one1 week down the line I am with her friend, it was ok at first but like I said before, ...

A.   11 April 2009: Ok I hear this question a lot? Do you still love your ex more then your new gf? Do you still have feels for her? Do you want hold your ex for ever and never let her go? These are question u need to know who to pick when u answer them and I hope u ... (read in full...)

I mean if he was that interested he would have asked me out by now, right?

Q.   I have got myself into a situation at work with a guy. We have been flirting for about 2 years, he is always making sexual comments, we have never been out together but we get on, he has just never asked me out, Last year he told me we wante...

A.   11 April 2009: Am spectre and I know why he didn't ask am only 13 but I know what's happening he is afraid to ask like I was with my first gf and I only had 5 and am still having trouble he is frighten that your going to say no so you should try to ask him out or ... (read in full...)

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