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Does he really love me if he needs time to think?

Q.   I spilt up from my boyfriend of three and a half years almost 7 months ago. There has been a lot of hurt and pain caused, and a lot of things said and done and as a results we have found it really difficult to get back together. However, we still ...

A.   17 November 2009: I do not think he is not loving you if he asks for time to think, sometimes it is not only about love, there is much more things to be taken into consideration.. i think you took your time and thought about it, now give him the time he needs.. and ... (read in full...)

4 years and 2 kids isn't enough for him to marry me?

Q.   ok, im not sure where t start, i have been with this guy for 4 years and we have 2 kids together. i love this man with everything i have. well we live in his home town and my home town is 1200 miles away where all my family and friends live. i dont ...

A.   19 August 2009: Why you want to marry him at the first place!!! if i was married to such person i will get divorce and take the kids.. thank god you are not.. and put an end to such an unhealthy relation!! ... (read in full...)

Should I break my friendship or break my lover's heart?

Q.   My best friends brother has fallen in love with me and he told my best friend and she is pissed and never wants to talk to me again....what am i supposed to do; break my friendship or break my lovers heart....i'm so confused.......

A.   19 August 2009: what about you and your heart?? you talked about everyone's feelings but yours!!! whom are you in love with? that should be your main concern. second of all, your friend should have nothing to do with this, it is not he right to be pissed of, if y... (read in full...)

Is he just making fun of me or is he being flirty with me?

Q.   ok this is my problem. i think i'm in-love with the wrong guy.he has a girlfriend that is far away -like long distance relationship- and the girl really loves him and he loves her (i think). And the worst, he's older than me about 10 years... ...

A.   21 July 2009: Hi, i do not think he takes you seriously, of course i can not tell for sure, but being flirty after knowing your feelings toward him, does not seem very right, maybe he is just trying to make it less embarrassing or something. anyhow, it is just... (read in full...)

He wants me to move in but I won't unless it leads to marriage, help?

Q.   My boyfriend was married 10 years ago and got divorced. His wife had lied to him and said she wanted children but she never did. The divorce devastated him due to the lies and she also wiped him out financially. Now he has a great fear of marriage ...

A.   7 June 2009: Why do not you both set, say, a deadline.. 8 months is it that long period, but not too short to determine weather this is gonna lead somewhere or not. I think you should agree on a specific get-to-know duration that won't waste your time for noth... (read in full...)

In a 3 year relationship, with a man who is disrespectful, controlling and cruel in ways, why do I still want to be with him?

Q.   I need some advice on my relationship itr my first proper one so i havent really got anything to compare it too. I see my boyfriend 2-3 times a wk. After 3 yrs! We dont live in the same town but only 30 mins away! Its his attitude towards me and ...

A.   6 June 2009: Get rid of this guy, even if you missed him at the beginning, you will get over it easily, it seems like you never had a good time with him to remember. ... (read in full...)

My wife is talking and flirting with her first love.

Q.   I am a 43 year male who is married to a wonderful person. Found out that she has been emailing, chatting, probably talking to what I believe is a first love, the discussions she has are sexually (I miss you and would love you to touch me #@!$ on by ...

A.   20 May 2009: what she does is extremely wrong, and not respecting, i think you have to take a serious reaction. you both have to talk about your limits, and what is acceptable in your marriage and what is not.. sexual flirting is not what friends do at all, i th... (read in full...)

What does he want for God's sake?

Q.   please help me with this, i have known this guy for a good while and l liked him from the start, we talk to each other almost everyday for hours, the thing is that.. i know that he is trying to make me jealous; talking about other girls to me. he ...

A.   18 May 2009: thanks for your reply.. i know you people are not mind readers, and i am not asking for such thing. i just need you tell me what you think about it, according to your experiences. :) ... (read in full...)

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