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Why am I testing my boyfriend?

Q.   Hi. I have an amazing boyfriend of 5 months, but I keep constantly testing him to see if he is really in love with me or not. I am about to graduate from college and I know that will put us in two different places, and I am terrified of breaking up ...

A.   5 February 2008: You are afraid of where it is going! The best advise I can give you is to just relax about it and go with the flow. Make plans for the future and live for today if it does not work then it was not meant to be. I recently went through this ... (read in full...)

Redhair and pale skin, Why do we get picked on?

Q.   Me and brother (twin) both get picked on because of our red hair and pale skin. It's been like this for a couple years. But no matter what we do, people still ask us dumb questions about why we are so pale all the time. Why is that?...

A.   5 February 2008: People can be so mean weather its your hair, your name or anything unusual about you. It does not matter people can be so mean sometimes, I color my hair often to keep it red because I love it, I actually thought the other day it would be n... (read in full...)

Worried my gf's good looks will go down the tolilet! How do I tell her this?

Q.   Hi, I have been seeing my girlfriend now for about 9 months, when we 1st met, she blew me away- nice personality, beautiful looks, a great smile and a lovely body. She has just started using the pill, I said I would use condoms but she wants to use ...

A.   16 January 2008: well honestly I have been on several pill they effect every one different, I understand her need for secure BC. Though you might discuss with her trying a different contraceptive, I don't know how athletic you all are or if you like to work out but ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend lied about watching porn. Now I can't trust him. What should I do to make things better?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. We have a better relationship than many. Except for one thing... Right now we finally have a place of our own. But we were in a long distance relationship for about 1.5 years in the middle of that. ...

A.   16 January 2008: Well I have a question for you Why do you think it is that bad? My husband and I are separated right now and have been for almost 15 months with three brief visits, I know he looks at porn. He still finds me sexy so that is all that matters. And ... (read in full...)

I like guys but am wondering if I could be bi?

Q.   hey i like guys alot but i think i could be bi i think some girls are good lookin and when i think about it girls turn me on and guys dont that much i havet had sex yet with a girl or a boy trouble is guys dont turn me on girls do am i bi? or bi ...

A.   7 January 2008: hey I think it is normal to be curious but that does not necessarily mean anything. But I would not read to much into it and look at it more on a connection level weather you connect with a particular person ... (read in full...)

I've found pornographic pics of my 16 yr old sister on the internet! What shall I do?

Q.   ive found pictures of my sister on the internet. She is with different lads having sex, anal, bondage etc. she is only 16!! should i tell her or our parents or just ignore it?...

A.   28 December 2007: well honestly if it were my sister I would confront her first. I know this is a big deal but you do not want to break the trust between sister especially if she may need you in the near future. ... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin but my girlfriend is not. I hear that it would be wrong if she took my virginity, but I don't think it is. What is your opinion?

Q.   me and my girl friend are both 14, we love echother a lot. even at this age. we have been told it's real, a few time's so we think it is....... but she is not a vergin and i am.......would it be wrong if she took my verginity? i wont do eny...

A.   28 December 2007: Ok I know you are getting a lot of replies to waiting, and 14 yes you should wait at least a few more year. But on the other hand the real question is can she take your virginity. It is not advisable when you take some ones virginity your taking ... (read in full...)

My husband is a deployed military, I need his economical support, he didn't help me. Too proud to ask specifically. Are American men like this?

Q.   Hello Dear Friends, Let me tell you a little bit of my situation. In the month of June I got married to a military (USAF) I am Mexican and he is American, in the month of August he was deployed to Korea, I came back to Mexico were I was living bef...

A.   26 December 2007: Your husband does get extra money for being married in the military. And especially because he is over seas. He get all kinds of benefits. I honestly would tell him you need his help, and maybe just make it a general help and he will get the ... (read in full...)

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