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Will I be bailed on again?

Q.   Well I'm in quite a situation, well firstly there is this girl who is a friend of mine. I'm in college and she is a senior at her high-school that she attends. Well she had a bf who broke up with her about a month ago. And me and her always talked ...

A.   10 July 2012: Man U totally need to add me so we can talk this out through message because i have A LOT to say that cant be said on this page.... (read in full...)

Am I wrong for wanting to get out of my relationship?

Q.   Am I wrong for wanting to get out of my relationship? .... We were together 3 years. He abused me emotionally and physically. Everytime i tried to leave he'd manipulate me into giving him anther chance. This time I didn't let him though he tried ...

A.   10 July 2012: U left, and its over. DO NOT GO BACK! Delete his number and everything that leads back to him. That door is closed now and you need to continue to live your life! God will find you someone! Jus be patient. Pray for him as well. It seems he probably ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend hasn't contacted me in three days

Q.   Dear Cupid My bf usually never calls. i am the one who always initiates the call. lately he is often hanging up the call saying he is busy when i call him. I got pissed off and told him i wont call him anymore unless he calls me, Its been ...

A.   9 July 2012: Hmmm Sounds like he wants you to chase him! And females are not to do that honey, oh no NO! Its most likely time to let him go. If he is not going to stop acting like a D.A.(which is dumbass) then cut him loose. Pray and ask God to bring you somone ... (read in full...)

Will I be bailed on again?

Q.   Well I'm in quite a situation, well firstly there is this girl who is a friend of mine. I'm in college and she is a senior at her high-school that she attends. Well she had a bf who broke up with her about a month ago. And me and her always talked ...

A.   9 July 2012: Well thats really messed up. I had a guy bff do that to me before and i totally cutt him off but Im not going to give you that advice because its not good advice. What I want to tell you is to look deep down inside yourself. How much do you really ... (read in full...)

I feel I'm putting in all the effort in our relationship... how can I get him to step up?

Q.   I met my boyfriend at university and this is the first summer that we're apart. I am always trying to talk to him, asking how he is, initiating the conversations and he never gives me anything back. So I left it and thought I'd let him talk...

A.   9 July 2012: I totally understand because what ur going through, I am going through. The sad thing about my situation is that its not long distance. Let him go. From what you are saying it really sounds like he doesn't give a damn honey. If that sounds waaay too ... (read in full...)

I need advice, I feel stuck in this relationship!

Q.   i am a 58 yr old black female living with a 53yr old black male.we have had our ups and downs,i first moved in with him, and we lived together for 7mos.we just recently moved back in together been here for 3months now,i feel that our relationship is ...

A.   9 July 2012: Ok so first off i believe that if you don't have the ring then the moving in thing has got to stop. You should have not moved back in with him until he actually pulled out the ring and placed on your finger. And i don't understand why you are payi... (read in full...)

He has a girlfriend...how do I tell him I like him?

Q.   Here we go again. So I used to like this guy A LOT. I was or maybe still am on and off with liking him. When he didn't have a girlfriend I didn't want him to know that I liked him but somehow it got out and he gave me his number. I am the type of ...

A.   6 January 2011: Thank you all for your wonderful answers!... (read in full...)

What do I do when my boyfriend flirts with a lot of girls??

Q.   Ok,supposedly this guy is supposed to be my boyfriend but he is known around school as the biggest flirt. I am the type of girl who gets serious when I'm in a relashonship. I really like this guy be cause he acts different around me but all the ...

A.   27 December 2010: Thank you all for your answers!!!! They help a great deal!... (read in full...)

I have fallen in love at the wrong age and I'm unsure what to do

Q.   Hi I'm 14 years old, about 2 years ago I met this girl and we are now best friends but I think I've fallen in love. I know it's stupid to fall in love at my age but she is on my mind 24/7. She calls me about three times a week and I do the same. She ...

A.   23 December 2010: Ok one thing you should know is that NO ONE falls in love at the wrong age. Love doesn't come with an age. It depends on your feelings and you never know when they come. Now if you really like this girl then tell her your feelings. You say you don't ... (read in full...)

My sister bullies me and undermines me all the time, What can I do to cope with this ?

Q.   I badly need your help in coping with my sister. She's always bossing me around and tries to play spoilsport in whatever i do. It started very early when she even tried to sexually assualt me. I was 10 at that time and all i could do was run away ...

A.   23 December 2010: Obviously we can tell that your sister has been going through something that you don't know or she's not happy with herself so to feel better she picks on you. That's how all bullies are. One thing I would consider is atleast trying to talk to her ... (read in full...)

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