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Lost my girlfriend.... but should I keep her as a friend?

Q.   18 months ago I fell in love. I'm 31 now. The sad thing is, this is my first real relationship. She was the first person who ever saw past my weight, etc, and gave me a chance. This is probably because I got to know her, and she got to know me, for ...

A.   14 November 2009: Thank you for taking the time to to give such a comprehensive answer. Kate knew that Chris has a girlfriend. They talked a lot and he would tell her all his relationship problems, etc. But now Kate feels Chris' girlfriend needs to know. I've ha... (read in full...)

My girlfriend's ex is overstepping the line!

Q.   I met my girlfriend a little over seven years ago. She was still married and living with her husband. We did fall in love, however, I told her I did not want to be in a relationship with a married woman. She told her husband about us and then she ...

A.   11 November 2009: Mind you, her husband probably still loves her. He married her and had a family with her for a reason. To know she's gone to someone else, be it man or woman, will have destroyed him. I don't see giving her money is a problem. It'll make him feel ... (read in full...)

Is it a sin to love your first cousin?

Q.   it is sin to love my first cousin? dear cupid, i had a first cousin, love at first sight,,he courts me, jan.26,2009,when i told him that i love him so much.. and he love me also.. apr.26,2009,we decided to have sex. we love each othe...

A.   11 November 2009: I went out with my first cousin, so no. But I don't know what the law states in your country. I know here it's ok. Better check that out first. We didn't deny we were cousins, but didn't tell people either. I know there is a lot of people w... (read in full...)

My cousin is in love with me!

Q.   ok so i have this really big problem.. i came back to my country this july, and we lived in my cousins house fer a month, my cousin was 18, now 19, and im 15. age isnt rlly a problem. so after a couple of days from wehn we started living ther, he...

A.   11 November 2009: First of all, I don't know about the legalities of cousins dating over there. I think it's ok in all but a couple of states. I fell in love with my cousin. We went out, had a great time, but it's all fallen appart now. Last weekend infact, ... (read in full...)

Sexting boyfriend's best friend

Q.   Hi I've been with my boyfriend Ray for 5 1/2 years, we live together but during this time I have fancied one of his best friends (Deryk). I thought I got over him until he started to tell me one drunken night (we were both drunk) that he was mast...

A.   11 November 2009: I'm currently going through the fall-out that Ray would go through if he found out (see question above this) and I can tell you, it's really bad. My world has collapsed around me. I don't know what to do now and I can't see a way out of this. ... (read in full...)

Should I indulge her rape fantasies?

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been going through some rough times lately, and things look to be going downhill fast, no matter what I do.   She's 8 months pregnant and I know her hormones are raging, so I've put my selfish needs aside in an attemp t...

A.   11 November 2009: Fantasy and reality are two vastly different things. Rape play is just that, play. At any time either of you can say stop and the game is over. Would it be better to call it something else? Suprise sex. :) ... (read in full...)

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