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Does love exist without sex?

Q.   Do you think love can exist without sex??..How can people be together 2-3 days out of a 7day wk without having sex when the see one another? This seems strange to me, but at the same time i think it's because im not use to it....

A.   11 January 2011: Thanks everyone for your answers they've really helped me put this concern into perspective. I will move forward, not concentrating on rather we have sex, but rather we are compatible for one another. Thanks again!!... (read in full...)

Can waiting until marriage for sex allow us to build better relationships?

Q.   I had a recent experience with a girl who is a "player". She is very beautiful and always attracts men. She toys with them, encourages them with flirtatious words, all the time saying they are not her type, even as they get their hopes up. I, ...

A.   10 January 2011: I agree this is a very complex question, and I actually just posted something very similar (before I read yours ;)) Personally, for spiritual beliefs (Christian) I do think that sex should be something shared between a married couple. Although... (read in full...)

Is he playing hard to get or is he not interested?

Q.   what's the different signs of a guy playing hard to get and just simply not being interested...

A.   17 July 2010: Thanks everyone for your answers!!! I really appreciate it...i've took in all of it and i feel that he's interested but just not enough for me at this point. I think i will just pull back and let him contact me if he wants to hear and/or see me. ... (read in full...)

Does anyone know of any methods/strategies I can adopt to learn to love myself more?

Q.   Hello again... I posted a question yesterday asking how can I learn to love myself. I didn't really get any of what I was looking for so I'm wondering if someone who has experienced life a little (over 30) can comment or advise on my situation. ...

A.   15 April 2009: to army medic...i can't help what im more or not more receptive to...i didn't really receive what i was looking for therefore posted the question again...no thanks...i don't need a repeat of emily's response or i wouldn't have posted the same ... (read in full...)

How do I learn to love myself?

Q.   hello aunts...im 28yrs old and im wondering how do i even begin to work on myself meaning 1)get to know myself and 2)love myself? alot of responses to questions involving bad relationships always get around to saying that one should get to kn...

A.   14 April 2009: i'm not sure if i wasn't clear in my post or what...but i do have goals and an outlook on life...my question simply was how can i love myself more to the point where i don't settle for the love that's being offered or that i keep running into... ... (read in full...)

Should I take a sabbatical from all men?

Q.   I have been with my current boyfriend for almost two years, he has a lot of problems and growing up to do as far as his own life is concerned and I got tired of waiting around and so I told him I was going to start seeing someone else. After ha...

A.   13 April 2009: as long as your not leading the new guy on to believe he's the only one your associating with...you should be fine...BUT if your giving him the impression that you and him may have something in the future and your no longer in contact with your ... (read in full...)

He has a g/f and doesn't even care if I contact her

Q.   dearcupid i've been seeing a guy 11yrs my junior and he has a girlfriend. this had been going on for nearly 9 months. i know it's wrong, so i don't need anyone to tell me it's wrong. i just can't seem to leave him alone. i've even went as far as t...

A.   12 April 2009: UPDATE!!!! I called the gf on valentines day and I've still been seeing the guy... no... he didn't leave her... I'm still being stupid... wanting to be loved... insecure... but I believe in time his presence in my life will be a thing of the pas... (read in full...)

He has a g/f and doesn't even care if I contact her

Q.   dearcupid i've been seeing a guy 11yrs my junior and he has a girlfriend. this had been going on for nearly 9 months. i know it's wrong, so i don't need anyone to tell me it's wrong. i just can't seem to leave him alone. i've even went as far as t...

A.   28 January 2009: hello anon...i apologize if i was rude...i read what you said and you were right...i do tend to want the easy way out or overlook my role/actions in alot of things...congratulations!!!you've made me acknowledge that...my mom would say that when i ... (read in full...)

He has a g/f and doesn't even care if I contact her

Q.   dearcupid i've been seeing a guy 11yrs my junior and he has a girlfriend. this had been going on for nearly 9 months. i know it's wrong, so i don't need anyone to tell me it's wrong. i just can't seem to leave him alone. i've even went as far as t...

A.   25 January 2009: thanks for the response...if you anon poster would carefully read the post you would have gathered that im fully aware of this relationship being unhealthy...this is why i feel like he needs to be discovered...as far as me liking attention im far ... (read in full...)

He has a g/f and doesn't even care if I contact her

Q.   dearcupid i've been seeing a guy 11yrs my junior and he has a girlfriend. this had been going on for nearly 9 months. i know it's wrong, so i don't need anyone to tell me it's wrong. i just can't seem to leave him alone. i've even went as far as t...

A.   25 January 2009: i apologize, he's actually 11yrs my Senior...no im not a teacher and he's not my student...thanks for the response that has definitely help me understand why he's so nonshalaunt about me calling his gf...this gives me another perspective on how to ... (read in full...)

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