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Does my female teacher love me?

Q.   she stares at me in the hallways today when she talked about the new policies i got mad at her. i knew she knew about it and when we took a test i know mentally she tryed to comfort me. plus, i put a little love note on her desk she knew it was me. ...

A.   27 March 2011: never mind about this question.... (read in full...)

He left me when I was a month pregnant and I never hear from him until a year later when he wants to marry me!?

Q.   Hi everybody,Please help!My boyfriend left me when i was a month pregnant.I take care of myseslf during all my pregnancy time.I had never heard about him and I did not know where he was neither.I took over everything on my own,no child support,and ...

A.   25 March 2011: marry him. he obviously is trying to make up for the mistake he made. ... (read in full...)

How can I be happy with this guy when I'm always thinking of her?

Q.   ok so im torn. I met this guy a few months ago via the internet, we get on really well and i spend alot of time thinking about him. The problem is the res of my time os spent thinking about an amazing women. all i want to do is be near her and nw i...

A.   20 March 2011: The obvious answer is that you love this woman. Forget about the guy. If you keep thinking about this women, that means you really have something for her. ... (read in full...)

Married 2 years and we're both still virgins!

Q.   I've been married for 2 years and my husband has a pre-ejaculation problem. I am a virgin and so is he. I am getting frustrated every time we try to make love and he would ejaculate before he can even penetrate inside me. He just cannot control it, ...

A.   20 March 2011: You need some sexual experience, but don't do it with a guy. Ask your husband if you can do it with a girl. It may seem awkward, but you really wouldn't be cheating on him if you had sex with a girl if it is ok with him. If it isn't, you may want to ... (read in full...)

I am attracted to men and women, where do I go from here??

Q.   Alright so, I'm thinking I might be bisexual but I'm not sure.... This is just so confusing :( I'm sexually attracted to boys don't get me wrong, and I want to marry one, have kids,build a life, etc.... but I'm almost 99% sure I'm attracted to wom...

A.   20 March 2011: I have been on one side of the fence many times, but i stuck with women because men can't give you that one thing that girls can. true love and honesty. i dated this guy once he never once pleasured me or told me that he loved me. i am now dating a ... (read in full...)

Can you suggest a way to make having sex less painful??

Q.   Okay this question strictly applies to sex ; theres no relationship problems involved. So if anyone has knowledge about this please respond. Okay, i'm a young female and whenever I lost my virginity two years ago. And i've had sex since. However, ...

A.   20 March 2011: this may sound weird but why not have it with a girl. their gentler and it'll be less painful. or you could get your boyfriend to be less aggressive if he is. ... (read in full...)

Should or can I ever trust her again? she's had a more colorful past than I knew.

Q.   i'm 34 and she's 21. We're married for 15 months. we're fated, have everything in common. however, a few weeks back i asked her which friend she talks to most about stuff. she said no one really, and certainly would never spill details abou...

A.   19 March 2011: you should just see what happens in the future. don't bring up her past. you may cause issues. just wait. what if she is trying to change? you never know.... (read in full...)

Am I a lesbian because I think of girls when I masturbate?

Q.   I'm a 16 year old girl, and recently found out how amazing masturbation is...but lately, when I do it I think of girls in my school. I have a boyfriend, but rarely ever think of him while I do this...does this mean I might be lesbian/...

A.   19 March 2011: probably if you are thinking about other girls. that means they turn you on. that means you are attracted to them. just accept it.you are maybe bi... (read in full...)

I thought I was straight and I have a boyfriend, but I have fallen for a female friend! Help!

Q.   I am very confused. I'm a straight (I think) girl who fell in love with a girl. I have a bf, but still liked this girl even though she likes no one. My friend is going to ask her out and for some reason I'm upset about it. I know that the girl that ...

A.   19 March 2011: it's obvious that you need to decide whether you let your best friend have her or you. you can't love your boyfriend and that girl at the same time. pick one.... (read in full...)

I'm wondering if I might be bi?

Q.   Well, oka here goes. I really don't know what I'm on this website for but i need some help. Well basically i think i might be bi. I'm 16, so i've had relationships in the past, with guys. They've all gone well and i enjoyed the stuff we did ...

A.   19 March 2011: You might actually like girls. Try out a relationship with a girl. They are more gentle than guys, and they won't betray you. ... (read in full...)

How can I let her down gently? She was a virgin. I was drunk. Her family could be a problem

Q.   hello. i slept with my best mates sister the other day. im 20 shes 18 it was just a drunken mistake at a party. but she thinks were together how can let her down gently and without her family finding out. also make thing worse she was a virgin. plz ...

A.   19 March 2011: Try something. Try to find what you like about her. If that doesn't work, let her down gently. Just tell her that you were desperately looking for someone to hold that night, and you couldn't stand it anymore. then tell her that you don't want that ... (read in full...)

She's 59 and I'm 18 so how can I tell her I love her? Also she's with someone.

Q.   Help i am in love with my mums friend and i think she likes me too. But she is with some one and she has two kids. I am 18. i really want to tell her but i am not sure because she is with this other person and she is 59 and she doesn't act nor look...

A.   19 March 2011: Go ahead. Just tell her. You're old enough or take time to get her to fall in love with you. Give her signs that you do, or you could just say it right now, but say it in a sincere way. Don't be too pushy. Like say this, '' I love you, and i always ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my female teacher and at a complete loss about what to do? Ideas?

Q.   I am 16 years old and have been in love with this teacher for about 2 and a half years now :/ I first met her when I was 13 and I didn’t like her very much at all. Then she became my teacher. In that term I realised that I didn’t hate her but ins...

A.   18 March 2011: tell her. it obvious that she must have some feelings for you. she might be acting that she loves her husband and when she really likes you. take a risk. you will never know the truth unless you take a risk. and if it risks your reltionship then so ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with a female teacher, I'm female too, what to do?

Q.   When i was in year 8 I had a teacher for english. although i hated her then she grew on me. although she isnt my teachwer anymore i still see ehr everyday in school. she is always nice to me and she makes my stomach flip and my heart beat faster ...

A.   18 March 2011: i know i feel the same way about mine. i am in love with my teacher. i think you shoould slowly make her fall in love with you. maybe give some hints. but don't come on too strong and if you care about her tell her you love her after school. this is ... (read in full...)

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