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What does she mean by slow?

Q.   My girlfriend told me she wanted to take things slow and I wanted a few opinions from other women on what that means. I've been dating my girlfriend for almost two months and we haven't done anything sexually intimate other than kissing and making ...

A.   9 September 2009: Slow means not just jumping into things. Let's skip back to kisses and making out for an example I can explain well. If you just started dating and you kiss a girl and jump into making out, that's taking things really fast. Now, if you wait until ... (read in full...)

He flirts with me a lot, says some nice things, but I am not sure of his feelings for me, what do you think?

Q.   Well im 13 and one of my best friendz he is 15. In sixth grade we were like BFF and then moved to Florida for a while. Then in 8th grade he came back and we instantly were friends all over again. But now since we are going to different high ...

A.   7 September 2009: It's very possible he likes you or at least can like you. Keep in mind that people can like more than one person at a time. But if he's in another realtionship, make sure that he doesn't do anything more than flirt with you unless he breaks up with ... (read in full...)

My mom is taking me to get a pregnancy test, I'm scared, don't want to raise a baby, please help?

Q.   I'm 14 and could be pregnant, i had sex with my ex 3 month ago and have missed every period, my mum has only found this out today, so she is taking me for a preggy test but the thing is im to scared incase i amm. im not sure how to bring a baby up ...

A.   7 September 2009: My mother has told me of story of how she was raped when she was 16. She got pregnant and her own mother convinced her to get an abortion. She feels it was one of the worst mistakes of her life and not a day goes by that she doesn't think about the ... (read in full...)

How can I have a relationship where I won't get hurt and abandoned?

Q.   This is kinda long, so I hope you all have the patience to read it. I'm not good at shortening things and this kinda takes place in a lot of time. Flash back to about 8 years ago when I was around 4 or 5. We lived in a city in Utah called Orem...

A.   6 September 2009: Well, I've already figured it out really well. It goes back to when I was in Orem. When the neighborhood kids turned on me. It managed to scar me, possibly for life. Almost all of my problems root back to that. And even though Im pretty much over ... (read in full...)

How do I get rid of the bad feelings I have towards making out?

Q.   I've been reading articles and looking at things and just thinking about my relationships and questions have kinda come up. A few months ago, I dated this guy who was a close friend and who would say things that I believed were true (like he'd walk ...

A.   6 August 2009: Thanks! I take a slight pride in my typing abilities. That sounds like a pretty good idea, but it still worries me that the repulsion (I figured out the right word for it) might not naturally go away. Hopefully over time it will. I mean, I am only ... (read in full...)

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