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My ex-girlfriend split with me after 6 years and I am very low

Q.   Hi all, Well, where do I start. Let me give you some background information. I was with my ex-girlfriend for over 6 years and she split with me last weekend, 1st March. It was her choice, we split as she thought we didn't feel right and...

A.   11 March 2008: Hang with your friends. Go out, but avoid places that bring up memories. I'm going through something similar and the worst part of it is thinking and rethinking about it. But also give yourself time to grieve: I had to cry out of sight because my ... (read in full...)

Help! I am having trouble getting over my ex, what do I do?

Q.   I broke up with my girlfriend of over three years a couple weeks ago and I need some advice about what I should do now. Let me give you the background. We started dating during her senior year of high school; I am slightly older and was already ...

A.   11 March 2008: I am going through a very similar situation right now. It's been 2 and a half weeks and I still long for him a lot, while he seems to be nearly over me. And it's my first break up. I cannot tell you exactly how to get over him. What some friends ... (read in full...)

Has anybody else been in this position and got back with their ex after a year break and it's worked?

Q.   Ever since I split from my cheating boyfriend I hate being on my own, I'm still friends with my partner from before the one that cheated on me and I know he would like us to get back together, we were together for 12 years when I left him for the ...

A.   11 March 2008: I guess you should give it a try, but only if you really feel for him. I guess it will be a little bumpy at first but if what you feel for each other is for real, you'll do well. He seems to be a very nice person. Just try to figure otu what ... (read in full...)

Some ideas on reaching orgasms, increasing low stamina, etc? We are both virgins.

Q.   So I just got married, and my husband and I are both virgins... I think that its unneccesary to say that neither of us really knows what the hell to do... Lol, I'm asking for any tips you might have on reaching orgasm, increasing his woefully low ...

A.   10 March 2008: First of all let me tell you that it is very romantic to share that learning experience with your husband. You will be learning a lot about yourselves and about each other. Take time to explore each other, share your feelings and most important, try ... (read in full...)

I bled after losing my virginity, is this normal?

Q.   Hello everyone, I'm not very confident in writing this but really need advice. Anyway hear it goes, I lost my virginity last Friday to my b/f and hardly bled after more like a spot more then anything, then monday again hardly anything, but then ...

A.   10 March 2008: I remember I bled a lot the first time and then the second and third (which were about 2 weeks after the first). It's perfectly normal and healthy as well as the pain. You should see your doctor anyway, just for advice, control and informat... (read in full...)

I'm worried that I'll be a virgin for years to come....

Q.   Hey i need some help, I am a 21 year old girl and I'm still a virgin, ok that maybe sounds stupid but it really is a bit of a worry for me. I went out with a guy for over a year but was only 17 and felt I wasn't ready to sleep with him even though I...

A.   10 March 2008: That's allright honey, no one's chasing you. I lost mine at the age of 24, to my then boyfriend. We broke up recently and I'm still a little bitter about that (that is in fact how I found this site), but I remember my first time as a very kind and ... (read in full...)

How can I stop them bullying me???

Q.   At school I used to get along great with everyone until seventh grade. My cousin and another girl were new students and they seemed nice, but when they started hanging out together they started being mean to me and a couple other people. I couldn't ...

A.   10 March 2008: I was heavily bullied at high school, and my teachers would indulge it. It is a very bad situation and it can scar you for life, as it happened to me. You should not get away from school. Contact with others is important, specially at your age... (read in full...)

How do I deal with a painful, bitter break up - my first?

Q.   I've always been a very lonely person. Bullied at high school, I never got a real date until I was 22. This guy appeared and we got along very well. We became a couple and went steady for 3.5 years. But ever since our 5th month I found resistance ...

A.   10 March 2008: Thanks so much. I decided to register. I like this site and I think I can give advice to people as well out of this and other experiences. I'm not out of the woods yet, but I'll get by I guess. I'll try working on my self esteem now. Thank... (read in full...)

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