Please advise , would really appreciate it
Q. I'm ready to be in a relationship. What am i doing wrong which is inhibiting me from being in one ? I'm 18 and live in London with an active social life, going to university and previously went to a mixed school. I think I am quite attrac...
A. 13 December 2007: Thank you so much for you advise ! You know im apostive person but sometimes can feel really down about things especially cause im just slightly lonely at the moment living away from my friends and family. Your support is really helpful ! xxx... (read in full...)
Should I choose my boyfriend or his brother?
Q. I am in a completely odd situation. Along time ago I met this guy I thought was so hot. I of course flirted with him and gave him my number. He called me and we talked a lot, sometimes late into the night. And then everything just ended. He never ...
A. 12 December 2007: leave the brother alone. where do you gain the confidence from to think you have the right to ruin a family ? honestly, either enjoy what you have and stop romanticizing your single life or just dump the guy who you obviously don't like that much ... (read in full...)
She says she's going to leave her husband for me, but I'm not sure, neither me or her husband deserve this, should I say enough is enough?
Q. i am having an affair with a married girl , i have tried to end it cause i love her but she cannot be with me . but she came right bk the next day saying she had made a mistake to let me go , and i am the only one she wants so i took her bk , and ...
A. 12 December 2007: Dump her . Honestly could you say that you deserve this ? If this girl is doing this to her HUSBAND then who says she wont turn around and do the same thing to you. If the building blocks of your relationship are based on lies and cheating, even ... (read in full...)
I suspected he is a player, but we have really connected and are taking it slowly, am I just his bootie call?
Q. I met this guy about a month ago, hated him at first, he screamed player to me, however after getting to know him I began to like him and have slept with him twice. Both times we connected emotionally as well as sexually. I dont know where we're ...
A. 12 December 2007: I'm sorry to say this but this guy sounds like a player and not in the hot player who can be converted type. You didnt do nything wrong, but you knew what you were getting into, my advise would be to stop seeing him. You'll end up hurt and used. ... (read in full...)
Why am I so worried, and paranoid?
Q. Hey, im a 17 year old male and iv been with the most amazing girl for about 3 weeks now and iv fallen already and im really scared of losing her, she tells me she loves me and i know she does but theres this thing inside me, like its controlling me ...
A. 12 December 2007: i think you hit the nail on the head at the end with why you have this complex. Most people would be really disturbed by their girlfriends going off with their best friend and you know what you shouldn't further your anxiety by getting freaked out ... (read in full...)
Should I be her friend or not? What do you think?
Q. Ok this is a long story but I'll make it as short as I can. Ok when I was in year 10 (summer term) two of my really close friends started to randomly ignore me/refusing to talk to me/making snide comments/saying mean things that only I would und...
A. 12 December 2007: It must have been really tough to go through all of that. You could with all right decide that this girl is a bad cookie and just not trust her. Or you could show her a leap of faith and provide her with what is a real friendship. She can probably ... (read in full...)
I cant stop thinking about his ex girlfriend and what she used to do to him that I haven't, how can I get her out of my head?
Q. me and my bf are going out a year ,we are getting a house together in june(im so excited)we love each other to bits, we are getting married in few years, having kids in a good few years we love each other and wanna spend rest our lives together. ...
A. 12 December 2007: I honestly think you should look at your insecurity . what makes you feel inferior? Honestly you have him now, he probably really respects you for your decisions and thats why he is with her and not with you. Try and focus on all you bring to the ... (read in full...)
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