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I love him, I cheat, why?

Q.   my problem will probably appear very mixed up and contradictory. But i'm saying this from my own experience from my boyfriend of 15months. Since around 4 months ago, me and my boyfriends relationship deteriorated slightly, many arguments came and...

A.   17 May 2009: First of all you need to stop blaming it on him. it takes two to tango, is as real as it gets. You say RELATIONSHIPS ARE BASED ON HONESTY AND TRUST!! You've been cheating on him with 6 different people for 4 months!!!! and you expect him to be ... (read in full...)

I have been with my girlfriend for 7 years, but now I have a crush on a girl at work... what do I do?

Q.   I everyone, I am 30 years old and I am with the same girl, not married, since 7 years. The problem now is I m having a crush on a girl at work who is with her boyfriend for 15 years. A little voice tell me not to act on it but I can't stop pictu...

A.   19 September 2008: its all fun and games, until you get caught! if your happy with your girl, stay with her and dont cheat. you already know that its a problem but its normal! people get attracted to each other, but it will happen again in your life. so you can ei... (read in full...)

What is your opinion on a 15 year old sleeping with a 17 year old?

Q.   Hi DearCupid, I was wondering how you all feel about a fifteen year old being sexually active with a seventeen year old, just want your opinions. K, thank you (:...

A.   19 September 2008: ive known people that have sex younger than you. and honestly, its not something anyone is proud of. you need to be true to yourself. remember that only a SELECT FEW can not have sex. and in the end its worth it if you can hold it because your ... (read in full...)

Has anyone ever had a serious relationship develop from a one-night stand?

Q.   I am just curious, has anyone ever had a serious relationship leading to love after a one night stand or sex the first night you've met them? Is it possible for him to respect you after you did the deed?...

A.   19 September 2008: well if your asking in general, yes. all a relationship is, is attraction at first sight. so if you two people meet. have sex, dont have sex, etc. they both know if they want to continue talking to each other or not. if they do, and feelings get... (read in full...)

Do my dreams of him cheating on me mean that he actually is?

Q.   i had a dream that my boyfriend of 15 months cheats on me, i have had this dream 3 times now, the las dream was that i was hanging out with him, we were sitting down and this girl sat next to us and kept coming close to us until he put his arm ...

A.   22 August 2008: im not expert but in my past relationship. i had a dream of my gf getting with this guy i knew. idk if it was my jealousy or if she was already cheating on me that i had this dream but i had it. and eventually they did end up getting together. maybe ... (read in full...)

I am depressed. I fool aroung with a married man, I only talk to my ex, they both treat me like crap, I am an a treadmill, going nowhere in life, how do I change all of this?

Q.   I dont even know where to start. I have become a needy person. i think everything started with my ex. i was with him 4 1/2 years and for what he cheated, lied and everything else, i met a guy that was an ass after i broke up with him got pregnant ...

A.   14 August 2008: you say they treat you like shit. but how are you treating them? what you do to them after you get mad is bad karma. you need to be real to yourself for your everything to be good. what you are doing is wreckless. you need to have faith and sit down ... (read in full...)

If I let go of my ex and just wait will he come back?

Q.   Just wondering do u guys believe in the sayin "if u love something let it go and it comes back blah blah"?? Is it really true?? I mean if it was real love why would they have left in the first place? Deep down i sort of want it 2 be true, seein as ...

A.   10 August 2008: deep down you know how you feel. you know what you deserve and what you know you can have. only a select few can make the RIGHt choice and let go and have FAITH that everything thats meant to happen will happen. but if you go out your way to get ... (read in full...)

Cheated on my boyfriend with a holiday fling - now I'm home and miserable..

Q.   Please help me cope with these weird feelings... I have a boyfriend and we were going fine. Then I recently went on a trip for 4 days with a friend. While i was there i met this really nice lad. We got off etc, and we didnt really say goodbye ...

A.   2 August 2008: you have to understand what you have at home is reality. and when you go off on vacation/out/etc. is for fun. you obviously had a "one night stand" sorta thing so the best way to handle it is too just leave take it for what it is. FUN. if you really ... (read in full...)

Does anyone know, if urinating in a woman's vagina is harmful, or would create a medical problem?

Q.   dear cupid. i just want to find out if urinating close to or in my fiances vagina is dangerous. we have a good sexlife but we are carefull when it comes to extreme fetishes. i would like a medical review about it. thanx...

A.   17 July 2008: im pretty sure she can get an infection... (read in full...)

Girls just don't seem to like me...

Q.   ok first time asking something like this, but I dont know where else to go (not paying for a shrink lol). Im 23 now, and basically it seems like no matter what i've done my whole life women just arent interested in me in the slightest bit, a...

A.   15 July 2008: "clothes dont make a person, a person makes the clothes" you need to start loving you for you.. try to be happy with everything you got in your life. girls tend to have intrest in ppl who are happy. i know things can be hectic but you seem lik... (read in full...)

Does he like it when I moan? Or is it a complete turn off?

Q.   When me and my boyfriend have oral sex..Does he like it when I moan? Or is it a complete turn off?...

A.   15 July 2008: he definitely likes it when you moan !!!!!!!!!!!! ... (read in full...)

I love her and I trust her, so why do I get so jealous?

Q.   Ok, well i have been in a relationship with this girl for eight months. I know i love her, if anything happened to her i swear i would die. And i know she loves me. I really think im the problem though. I trust her, i know she would never cheat on ...

A.   24 June 2008: bro i know how your feeling, ive been through similiar situations. you need to stop being so over protective. you have to become a man and stop getting mad about things. its bugging her more and its making her look at you werid so stop being o... (read in full...)

I started seeing my ex and I still love her... any advice?

Q.   There's this girl who i used to go out with for 2 years and 4 months and it ended a while ago. We started doing stuff again and I still love her. Anyone got any advice on what i should do?...

A.   19 June 2008: take it slow.. see if shes still intrested in you when you guys talk.. if she is.. ur set from there.. just take it slow have fun and try to make it work again.. if not ur best shot is to be friends.. make her see what shes missing.. goodluck... (read in full...)

How to suggest rough sex? How to make him propose even though his divorce is not final?

Q.   Ok I have posted here before and I got really good answers so Im going to try it again... How do I get my boyfriend to propose or even give me a promise ring even though his divorce isnt final? How do I get my boyfriend to be rough during sex...

A.   19 June 2008: idk about the ring but. when ur in bed, seduce him by making it seem like hes really good, than just be rough with him, talk a lil dirty make it exciting. hopefully u get the idea... (read in full...)

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