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The Nice Guy

Q.   I remember being a kid and watching those corny teen movies like “Can’t Hardly Wait” and I recall thinking that the nice guy always gets the girl and believing that is how it really is. But as I got older I came to learn that Hollywood is full of ...

A.   7 December 2008: I think that's really off to be honest. My fiance is the most charming, wonderful nice guy. I've never liked the jerks. A guy will appear nice and turn into a jerk when he feels comfortable in your company and feels like you wont leave even if he t... (read in full...)

Goths, Emo's, Chavs, what's the point of all this labeling?

Q.   Hey, Okay, basically, people like to label people, but why do they take it so far? Goths: They are supposed to be depressed, they wear black, and people don't like them because they are either different or they think that because they wear bla...

A.   7 December 2008: The human brain naturally sorts things into groups and humans are no different. We see simularities in people are relate them. It's stupid and pointless but a natural thing in all honesty. Don't let yourself be grouped; dress how you want, act how ... (read in full...)

How can I meet my BF on the other side of the world?

Q.   I love this guy I met, I love him so much. I want to meet him but he lives in Spain and me the USA. he don't care about sex or anything he listens to me, he's the only one I really trust. I need help how can we meet? I'm 14....

A.   7 December 2008: I'm 17 and have been in a LTR for a year now. I live in the UK and my (now fiance) in the USA who is also 17. Work with the realtionship more, keep talking and be open with each other. If it's meant to work it will last until you're older and you ... (read in full...)

A best friend and I went from cuddling to carressing our naked bodies. Was that wrong?

Q.   so the other day i went to one of my best friends house. we were just hanging out, watching a movie in his room. his parents werent home though. we were just cuddling at first but then he started to caress me, and i didnt stop him. he started ...

A.   7 December 2008: If you were a little weirded out that's natural, to be honest i'd feel the same with my male friends! But if you let him do it doesnt that mean like on a self-conscious level that you WANTED him to do it? And then in turn HE wanted you to do it too?... (read in full...)

How to prove I will never lie or cheat again as I found real love with her?

Q.   hello, im having a problem with my girlfriend and its all my fault, since a year now that we started this relationship,i ve cheated on her and lied without knowing the reason why i did all this to her, though i lied because i dont want to lose her, ...

A.   7 December 2008: I know how it feels to find true love and know that if you lost them you'd never let it go. But the point of the matter is it was YOU that cheated on HER. If you cared so much then why did you do that? That's what she will think, it's certainly what ... (read in full...)

A long distance relationship may be trouble!

Q.   I have been dating someone 4 hours away now for a little over 6 months. We have had no huge problems and everything for now is running quite smoothly. I am completely honest with him, which is a first for me. We see each other about every other ...

A.   29 July 2008: I think i can honestly say i understand this. In truth i'm not American im actually from Ireland but the person ive fallen for lives in America. So i know a thing or two about long distance relationships! XD We've been dating over 6 months and im h... (read in full...)

Even at this age I know the agony of heartbreak.

Q.   I know I'm still relatively young, but even at this age I know the agony of heartbreak. Many times I've fallen in, just to be broken again. I always think I've given up on love, but then I fall again. Every new beginning, every sign that says this ...

A.   29 July 2008: Being in the same age group i know exactly how it feels to fall head over heels for someone then utterly fall apart when they walk away. Believe me when i say i know it hurts. Ive had many guys walk away for a long list of reasons and just when you ... (read in full...)

Can one ignore her first and only sexual experience, an unpleasant one, and consider herself a virgin?

Q.   if losing your virginity is a state of mind is it acceptable for a girl to want to ignor her first intercourse (being unpleasent one) and concider her self still a vigin untill willingly giving her self, (it only being her second time?) [Added from...

A.   29 July 2008: I think it is very important that giving your virginity to someone is a willing thing. Something so special should be given under the right state of mind. I think you lose your virginity when you willingly give your body to another person without ... (read in full...)

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