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Boyfriend wants oral, but I have memories of being forced...

Q.   I am 19 years old now, and have met a guy I really like. He wants me to move in with him, and I am really looking forward to it. But I am really troubled about it to. Since living with my Mom at home, I have had the excuse not to do to much sex ...

A.   24 October 2009: Have no secrets and be totally honest and he will respect you for it. When you have told him he will respect you even more, and will allow you space and time plus this will add more pleasure and the act with him will be special and will blot out the ... (read in full...)

Why only 2 or 3 dates and then nothing?

Q.   I am a lady in her mid fifties ,divorced and told that i am still attractive and look young for my age.I use dating sites a lot and get a lot of response , some good and some bad. I am pretty choosey who I date and usually the date goes well a...

A.   24 October 2009: My experience is that ladies can be not willing to take a chance.I supposed if you come on straight away you can frighten some away (not me I might add)or can send out the wrong message but life is too short especially for us guys as after middle ... (read in full...)

My husband makes decisions alone not part of a unit!

Q.   How do you get your husband to understand that as part of a family you are suppose to make decisions together, not one without the other. My husband continuosly goes off and makes decisions with others without even asking me or discussing it with ...

A.   15 May 2009: My father was a military man, and he firmly believed that a woman had most of her work cut out with the house work and bringing up children. His job was taking full responsibility of major decissions so as to enlighten the burden on my mother, to ... (read in full...)

I want a saucy romantic military kind of book to read!

Q.   hey girls, this is a question for you. i'm not much of a book worm so i don't know where to look but i'm looking for a book, not one in particular, but a romantic erotic love story that involves the man being in the military. my guy used to be in ...

A.   15 May 2009: Try, " Soldier Blue " apart from that I haven't got a clue.... (read in full...)

How can I get over my ex-girlfriend?

Q.   Ok, we’ve all been there. A relationship we invested so much time in has come to an end one way or another and now you’ve got far too much time on your hands. No doubt, if you’ve been investing all your time into your relationship somewhere along ...

A.   15 May 2009: This is extremely puzling Why do you ask the question and then give us the answer ?? Why do you give answers to questions nobody has yet asked ? Have I been watching too much Columbo ?... (read in full...)

Should I forgive the cheater I'm in love with?

Q.   I have been dating this great guy Chase for 9 months. I though he was Mr. Perfect. I loved him then I found out with was cheating on me. Well actually he was cheating on his finacee with me!!! I found out he was cheating 2 months ago, when I showed ...

A.   15 May 2009: The only way out is to go with your inner voice, if you don't then you will never be satisfied. The chap involved sounds like I used to be a few years ago, totally mixed up, confused and can't do right for doing wrong. The trouble with love is,... (read in full...)

If a person never experienced true heartache can they know what true love is?

Q.   If a person never experienced true heartache, like a broken heart, can they know what true love is? To me, they have nothing to compare it to, so in my eyes one cant possibily know what love is until they experience how much hurt love can bring ...

A.   15 May 2009: You will know true love, this will make your life change from black and white to colour. I think the 1964 song by the 4 pennies "Someone" sums it up very well. Like the words of the lyrics says: "when someone really loves you, thats when your lif... (read in full...)

I can't stop thinking of another man

Q.   I'm happily married to my husband of 4 years (together for 8) but we barely have sex. Everything else in our marriage is great except the sex, or lack there of. In the past 2 years I keep finding myself attracted to other men who show me clear signs ...

A.   15 May 2009: You are happily married ?? Marriage is a partnership and should be equal, that is equal for you and equal for him. The sexual part of marriage is extremely important and in some countries you can easily get a divorse through non consumation. My a... (read in full...)

She doesn't mind me liking her but doesn't want things to be awkward... is this a good thing?

Q.   Hey, I really like this girl, but i'm not sure if she likes me back. One of my friends told her that I liked her, against my will, but she said that she didn't want it too feel awkward, and she doesn't mind. So is that a good thing? Please ...

A.   15 May 2009: If you like her as you say you do why not you tell her ? You say one of your friends has consulted her, are they after her, as they did this behind your back. Maybe they have a motive to see her to find out, but as they are in close contact they can... (read in full...)

How can I gain my pride and keep my cool in front of her?

Q.   pls read it to the end i have to quistions to answer there is this girl who i like very very very much and i know that she likes me becasue we always flirt and keep gazing at each other often but she is playing hard to get and she is very good in ...

A.   15 May 2009: Communication is the answer Wishing and hopeing is never going to get results Faint heart never won fair lady BE BRAVE, GO and make youself known to her, be polite and respect what she has to say. Tell her how you feel about her, maybe, just ... (read in full...)

Why older men?

Q.   what a life... good day to you, readers.. i just wanted to ask you a question. what do you think is the reason for me having crushes to older men than me, especially teachers, like 10 years older? is having a broken famliy a factor of this p...

A.   15 May 2009: Hi there, I have a reputation of being blatently honest and maybe contravertial, I give the real deal with no frills. I have answered this question in a generalised way giving a full answer to be the benifit of more than one enquirer. OK several ... (read in full...)

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