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Hia Everybody! I'm Serenazai. I live in England with my Dad and one of my two elder sisters. My mum died of cancer when I was 12, having been ill for 6 years before that. My parents were divorced and so it was hard when she died to have my dad move in with us and I became extremely unhappy. My elder sister attempted suicide, and shortly after she did, so did I. I am much better now in some ways. So I spent six years looking after my sisters and mother from a very young age. I have always loved helping people. However when you miss six years of your childhood telling yourself your feelings are unimportant and your mother needs you, it has a bad effect. I dont remember my mum. Therefore I miss something I never knew and cannot heal the pain because I dont know why its there in the first place. But forget my troubles, I am here to help anyone who needs it :) And I think I am becoming happier now.

I am currently in a relationship, but I'm not sure about it.

Likes: Drawing, Writing, Singing, Dancing, Martial Arts, Make-Up, My friends, My Family, Helping others, My Dog Cocoa, My cats Scrumple and Violet :) Yes, simple things make me happy (Im very easily entertained) Meeting new people, Music festivals, Going to gigs and More...

Dislikes: The conservative party. Sexism. Racism. Stereotypical discrimination. Little bit scared of spiders . Dishonesty. Bullying, teasing etc. I dont like underwater scenes in movies... but oddly enough I love swimming :D Scared of Sharks. Lol. War.

Religious Views: I am Wiccan. I believe every religion has good in it and I respect peoples choice of belief.

Enough about me. :)

I found out my boyfriend was flirting with another girl on line!

Q.   Yesteday i found out my boyfriend has been flirting with another girl online. Saying he wanted to meet up and have sex with her, and even accepting pictures of her nude and masturbating to her over webcam. This girl then decided to email me and sent ...

A.   10 March 2011: I know its really hard, but I think you have to let go of him. You say he did it to his previous gf as well and that is not a good sign, don't let him get away with it! And he was on webcam to that woman, masturbating. Even if he did just get ... (read in full...)

Does this big smile means he likes me?

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A.   10 March 2011: It could be either if you ask me. But I'd say go talk to him and get your flirt on ;) He might have just been in a good mood, or smiling to give himself confidence. But ya never know! Go for it, go get him x... (read in full...)

Want to send my b/f some texts

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A.   10 March 2011:  Dont send too many texts if you are worried about him finding you 'clingy'. Does he send you texts saying he loves you or anything like that? My advice is to say exactly what you feel, sometimes its hard to express feelings especially when you're ... (read in full...)

B/f keeps photos of his ex even though I have spoken to him about this 3 times already

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A.   10 March 2011: It sounds like he still has some attachment to his ex, clearly. I think you should speak to him about it again, saying all the worries you have said in this question. It may be that he does not mean to make you feel uncomfortable at all and that he ... (read in full...)

She's shy and now won't even be my friend, how do I change this?

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A.   9 March 2011: It sounds like she is a very self-conscious girl and doesn't want to draw attention to herself. She is obviously worried about what her parents will think if they suspect she is dating someone. She may well like you but be too shy to do anything, or ... (read in full...)

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