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What is with this guy?

Q.   so, i have this relationship i haven't been able to get over yet for whatever reason, maybe because i haven't been able to make sense of it. maybe i'm not sure if i did the right thing. i have been so messed up by it, and i guess from my other ...

A.   14 September 2011: haha. i apologize for my story causing you to be seasick, i haven't been able to think clearly. but as i write it out i can see things more clearly, and see how absurd the whole thing is. your harsh words were needed and appreciated, thank you.... (read in full...)

I'm in tremendous pain over this past breakup-relationship situation!

Q.   i am hurting so much over a past relationship breakup (last breakup was 2 months ago), i can't figure out what to do, i can't even figure out how i feel. i had pushed away my feelings because i couldn't deal with them, it's too painful. the last ...

A.   8 June 2011: thank you. i wish i could let it go, but it's painful. i guess letting go of the anger means feeling the pain, and i'd been avoiding that bc it's so painful. it's easier to hate than feel pain. i've tried to just ignore it, not care, it's been ... (read in full...)

Guy I'm seeing doesn't know who he is or what he wants., and I don't know how to deal with it.

Q.   I've been in a complicated relationship with a guy. We met 3 1/2 years ago. It's been crazy and unhealthy, but I could use some help to figure this guy out. Firstly, we met and he was with someone else. I knew that. They were having a bunch of ...

A.   19 February 2011: i thought it was unconditional love. though it could have been codependency, or, that he is a narcissist.... (read in full...)

Guy I'm seeing doesn't know who he is or what he wants., and I don't know how to deal with it.

Q.   I've been in a complicated relationship with a guy. We met 3 1/2 years ago. It's been crazy and unhealthy, but I could use some help to figure this guy out. Firstly, we met and he was with someone else. I knew that. They were having a bunch of ...

A.   19 February 2011: yes, thank you, i feel i have wasted too much time and messed up my life. i think this guy is possibly a narcissist, and i met him right after i came out of another bad relationship. i am more intelligent than this, but i thought it was real love, ... (read in full...)

After months of no contact the ex sent a note. Should I respond?

Q.   my ex and i had disagreements and broke up 6 months ago, i wrote him emails and called but he ignored me and didn't respond for the 3 months i tried to contact him. i finally quit trying to contact him, and then 3 months later he contacts me, but ...

A.   14 January 2011: thank you for you advices (long overdue i know). i know it may sound like i already know the answers but i need to bounce my thoughts off of people. i've been trying to figure this one out, i wish i could have a clear head about it. it was good ... (read in full...)

After months of no contact the ex sent a note. Should I respond?

Q.   my ex and i had disagreements and broke up 6 months ago, i wrote him emails and called but he ignored me and didn't respond for the 3 months i tried to contact him. i finally quit trying to contact him, and then 3 months later he contacts me, but ...

A.   13 January 2011: thank you for you advices (long overdue i know). i know it may sound like i already know the answers but i need to bounce my thoughts off of people. i've been trying to figure this one out, i wish i could have a clear head about it. it was good ... (read in full...)

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