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I had sex with my married stepbrother and now feel absolutely sick!

Q.   I’m incredibly confused and ashamed of what I did the other night. When I was 10 my mother got remarried and along with her new marriage came my stepbrother who is 2 years older than I am. Despite the fact that I wasn’t too happy about the whole ...

A.   4 October 2013: It's obvious that you and your stepbrother have an undeniably strong relationship. He genuinely cares about you, and it's no wonder this happened. For that, I agree with most other users that you should not feel overly disgusted with yourself. ... (read in full...)

Yells, screams and is needlessly hostile to me. How do I deal with my BF when he is like this?

Q.   Needlessly hostile boyfriend, hard to deal with. I'm on my last nerve with my boyfriend, and I feel like I have no one else to turn to. We've been dating for over a year, and we're both 21. This weekend was supposed to be a good, fun couple of days ...

A.   4 October 2013: @YouWish, my mother thinks the same as you do. I really do not know. I lived with him for a long while and did not notice any evidence that would suggest he was on drugs. But that doesn't mean anything. He often sleeps all day and stays up from 8 pm ... (read in full...)

BF turning out to be a real abusive jerk. Is this worth saving?

Q.   I'm in a relationship that is currently going on 7 months. My boyfriend and I met in college, and we are both 19 years old. It didn't take long, perhaps one month, before we slept together. I had been in a very serious relationship previously in ...

A.   27 June 2011: Thank you all so very much for your prompt and considerate answers. So far everyone seems to be thinking along the same lines. My friends and family tell me basically the same thing.... (read in full...)

He said he was going away for a few weeks, now it has been 4 months! Should I wait or move on?

Q.   Help me! my boyfriend has been away on a so called business trip for four months now(South America).When he left,he said it will only be three weeks.We have a child together( eleven months old)he hasnt sent any help finacialy since he left,he phones ...

A.   27 June 2011: I agree with hannah. If he's been calling you once a week to check in, why hasn't he said anything about his prolonged visit? His lack of honesty is disturbing. Furthermore, if this is bothering you so much, why haven't you asked? Four months is ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend says he needs a short break from our relationship, but his silence makes me think it's over for good.

Q.   Hi I just want to ask for your thoughts. I terribly miss my BF. We've been off for 2 weeks. He asked for a space 2 weeks ago coz we've been arguing on some things and one of these really touched his ego. He was asking for a 1 week space but on the ...

A.   27 June 2011: I recall having a similar problem with my ex. He and I had gotten into an argument over control issues and he demanded to have space for a month. I later found out that he cheated on me. However, your case seems to be different because he's only ... (read in full...)

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