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I'm pregnant. Should I leave my Bf? He's addicted to porn, uses weed and now he's cyber cheated.

Q.   I'm 7 months pregnant and just found out my boyfriend has been messaging a girl he knows on Facebook, suggestive and flirty messages. She suggested they do something sexual, to which he replied "will it be soon?? I can't wait to stay in the room ...

A.   26 November 2013: Thanks for the advice. I haven't been with him that long...I got pregnant after only a few weeks of knowing him (big mistake I think). Until I found out about the porn & weed etc though, I thought he was a wonderful person & we were really happy. ... (read in full...)

Is he a player if he's busy on the weekend?

Q.   Hi, I just met a lovely guy, he's South American and seems like the perfect guy. He's sweet, attentive, funny, complimentary etc. We met only 3 days ago and slept together on the first night - there was so much chemistry and we were both pretty ...

A.   7 December 2012: Thanks. Just to clarify, when I said that was 13 years ago I meant it was 13 years ago since I had the first date with the guy I was with for 8 years. I'm 33 now, I met him when I was 20. We were together until I was 28. Anyway, just wanted to clear ... (read in full...)

How can I make friends? I get nervous when I talk to people..

Q.   hi guys, i need advice on how to make friends? i get nervous easily and when i speak to people i just sort of mumble or get confused with what im trying to say. i dont really have a lot of confidence. not only that but i am currently une...

A.   6 December 2012: I've met many friends through uni, classes and groups. It's great because you have something in common with people in these situations, rather than just meeting someone when you go out partying or whatever. In a class or group it usually takes a ... (read in full...)

Is he a player if he's busy on the weekend?

Q.   Hi, I just met a lovely guy, he's South American and seems like the perfect guy. He's sweet, attentive, funny, complimentary etc. We met only 3 days ago and slept together on the first night - there was so much chemistry and we were both pretty ...

A.   6 December 2012: I don't really agree with you Yos. I usually know pretty quickly how I feel about someone and it only takes a couple of times seeing them to know whether it's someone I am close with or not. Same with making new friends. The last time I felt this ... (read in full...)

Is he a player if he's busy on the weekend?

Q.   Hi, I just met a lovely guy, he's South American and seems like the perfect guy. He's sweet, attentive, funny, complimentary etc. We met only 3 days ago and slept together on the first night - there was so much chemistry and we were both pretty ...

A.   6 December 2012: Thanks to everyone for your answers, I appreciate everyone's point of view. I think it's a good idea that the next time I see him we meet up somewhere for a date that doesn't end up back in the bedroom. I still don't think it's "wrong" for a woman ... (read in full...)

Is he a player if he's busy on the weekend?

Q.   Hi, I just met a lovely guy, he's South American and seems like the perfect guy. He's sweet, attentive, funny, complimentary etc. We met only 3 days ago and slept together on the first night - there was so much chemistry and we were both pretty ...

A.   5 December 2012: Wow, amazing how old fashioned the views are on here! Interesting that so many people still have the view that if a woman sleeps with a man she's really into on the first date, she's some kind of whore, whereas a man who's using a woman for sex is ... (read in full...)

Is he a player if he's busy on the weekend?

Q.   Hi, I just met a lovely guy, he's South American and seems like the perfect guy. He's sweet, attentive, funny, complimentary etc. We met only 3 days ago and slept together on the first night - there was so much chemistry and we were both pretty ...

A.   5 December 2012: Just to update... thanks for the two responses so far but I think your way of thinking is a little bit old school. Research shows that sleeping with someone on the first night doesn't affect whether you end up with that person or not. Also ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is really heartless about my feelings

Q.   My boyfriend is really heartless about my feelings. When we have a argument he leaves and ignores all contact from me. Its sad to say but for some reason when I hold my ground and act like a b***h he seems to want me more. However at times when my ...

A.   2 May 2012: Hi there, it sounds like your boyfriend likes the chase but isn't really that into you. I've experienced this sort of thing before - a guy would chase me and then as soon as I showed interest back they would retreat. Then when I was a cold hard ... (read in full...)

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