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*apphireLily's profile:

I'm young but with a middle-aged perspective.

I'm not a professional, I am just someone who likes to help others. In my group of friends, I'm usually the one they turn to for advice.

My relationship status is single but complicated.

I live in Canada.

I don't give my phone number out & pick up lines don't work on me.

I want to become a veterinarian or possibly something in the therapy field.

How do I tell guys I'm not interested?

Q.   I'm finding out there is a couple other guys who like me, but I know I am not attracted mentally or physically. I'm thinking this is because, I like Bob (code name) and I know he likes me so, I'm kind of putting other guys on hold for him. But I k...

A.   5 August 2009: Thanks! I appreciate your feedback! ... (read in full...)

So confused, sick and tired of my relationship!

Q.   I'm really starting to get sick and tired of my relationship. I have been involved with this guy for three yrs. I love him dearly , but I have a trust issue with him and I am trying hard to get over the fact that he has lied to me in the past. When ...

A.   31 July 2009: If you're confused, sick and tired of your relationship, then I don't think this is a relationship that should last. If you can't talk to him without him getting angry, and you feel like a rebound, its just adding up to why you shouldn't be toge... (read in full...)

I like him but I'm scared

Q.   Okay, I'm new to the whole asking for help thing. I usually help others and don't ask for help. But, There is this boy (I'll call him Bob), I know he likes me because he has told me and last year he had asked me to be his girlfriend. ...

A.   31 July 2009: I'm a good student, all A's. Boys, don't really affect me, since I'm never in a relationship. I don't know, I guess I'll just have to take a chance. But it wouldn't be a chance since I know he likes me. I mean we talk almost every night eith... (read in full...)

He's always been the one "that got away" How do I express this to him?

Q.   So just recently I ran into a familiar face. He was my childhood best friend up until i was 13 and i am now 19. My feelings for hi from back then still exist over the years and i had just realized i still felt that way for him when i ran into him. ...

A.   26 July 2009: Sometimes the best thing to do is tell him. Tell him, how YOU think YOU should, that way its sincere. Also, body language is key. Try to show him without saying anything first to see how he reacts; gently brushing his hand or shoulder, lo... (read in full...)

He says horrible things to me because he doesn't like my past!

Q.   My boyfriend says he says things he doesn't mean when he is mad, and i should not take them personally. here is some examples : slut, whore, dirty, i am going to throw you off this balcony, you deserved to get raped no one is going to want you now, ...

A.   26 July 2009: Hello, Even if he says he didn't mean them, and they hurt your feelings, there is no reason to put up with it. Especially when he threatens you & basically calls you unworthy. I don't think this relationship should continue. Your life could b... (read in full...)

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