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Although I enjoyed his interest I'm not sure I want to meet him, as I am committed, so what should I answer him?

Q.   Dear aunts and uncles I'm with my boyfriend for 4 years. We had some problems the last few month, but know, we want to stay together and may go further. At the beginning of our problems in October, I went to a advanced training course, where I ...

A.   3 January 2009: Aikona, you are going to get hurt. You are playing with fire. You cannot do this. You must tell him about your boyfriend or you must tell your boyfriend about him. It is like a spiderweb and you will get caught emotionally. Aikon, sop now, think ... (read in full...)

Do men like virgins?

Q.   Do men like virgins?...

A.   3 January 2009: That answer can be answered with history books. Eish, they think that is the "prize" they get. Yes, over the years it is important to menn from all cultures. Some will just admit it more then others. Some will say, oh, it does not matter but aikona, ... (read in full...)

I am pregnant and my partner masturbates to teen porn, what do you think?

Q.   I am pregnant and my husband has been telling me to go have sleeps coz I am so tired (which I thought was sweet) but Ive just found out he has been jacking off to teenage porn on line and just trying to get rid of me! I feel so disgusting its ...

A.   3 January 2009: Aikona, I will be very cross. He wants to look at women then he must look, but young gitls, aikona, it is like raping that child in his mind. No, I will talk to him and tell him how ai feel. You need to COMMUNICAT. YOU cannot get upset and keep ... (read in full...)

Although I enjoyed his interest I'm not sure I want to meet him, as I am committed, so what should I answer him?

Q.   Dear aunts and uncles I'm with my boyfriend for 4 years. We had some problems the last few month, but know, we want to stay together and may go further. At the beginning of our problems in October, I went to a advanced training course, where I ...

A.   3 January 2009: Aijaja, so much trouble so easy. You tell him you have an arrangement with your boyfriend. then you inform him about the boyfriend, you are not lying, as you did not say a date or whatever, anarrangement can be tha arrangement between the two of yu ... (read in full...)

He is asking me for no strings sex, what should I answer him?

Q.   This guy is with me since 2 years ago. We have kissed and caressed each other. He is asking me for sex, but without love and emotions. On New year eve he called me up and again asked me for sexual relations. I said him that i love him, and i also ...

A.   3 January 2009: Aikona, aikona, he wants a bargain! You are no cheap bargain! Eish, he thinks you are cheap, he wants it for mahalla(free) no commitment, no pay. No ways he does not love you and is not in a committed relationship with you; he is not paying you ... (read in full...)

I"m afraid to trust men and I keep sabotaging budding relationships

Q.   I'm a 56 year old woman, divorced with 3 grown up children. I've been single for 15 years, having been married for nearly 20. I'm slim, attractive and look much younger than my years. I look after myself, dress fashionably, go to the gym ...

A.   3 January 2009: Eish, eish, your problem problem is fear. You are scared of getting hurt. You have been hurt so much now you dont want to trust or let go of your feelings because you are so scared of the hurt. Eish, but there is no rose without a thorn. You have to ... (read in full...)

My b/f now wants to be FWB

Q.   my boyfriend of 1 and half years, told me that he wanted to be just friends with benefits, i agreed as i still love him, and it was a way for me still to see him. i cannot bare the thought of not seeing him, and i am hoping that he realizes ...

A.   3 January 2009: Face the facts. He is telling you stories. Eish, I know it hurst to face the reality, but fact it, he is using you. He gets the pleasure without the commimment or the pay. No stop, he has a bargain. It must not be like that. Dignity and selfrespect ... (read in full...)

He wants me to change my PROFESSIONAL name after marriage and I don't want to

Q.   Hello all, I have been in a relationship my boyfriend for 2 years and have run into some problems. We have discussed our future many times, trying to sort things to make our relationship work into a marriage, but I have some issues with what...

A.   3 January 2009: COMMUNICATE and COMPROMISE. Big incomes are wonderful. You don't have to quit your career to raise a child. As for the surname, that is selfish of him. Your in a professional career, it normal to want ot kep your surname. Eish, talk, he gets the ... (read in full...)

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