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Was I right to quit after the personal letter I received from the property manager?

Q.   This is not a question or input required for a work issue...I have been working in a small office for 2 and half years, only 5 of us in there. Well last week I sent the property manager an email letting her tho that she had made it quite clear du...

A.   24 July 2010: Thank you Dr Psych, you are right,its nice to hear this from someone outside the situation,yeh at least thank god I got out before she tore me to shreds,just goes to show you cant be great at everything I guess even at higher levels ... thank you ... (read in full...)

How do I get my mom to understand?!?!?

Q.   OK so I'm 13 years old and lots of people say i look way older and there's this guy whos 18, he goes to my church. he is very nice and all we text a bunch....but lately we been txt kinda sexually and well I know it sounds kinda whore-ish but ...

A.   24 July 2010: Your mum is just protecting you from what may happen.If he is talking sexually she is just protecting the inevidble!you are going to have sex...but not just yet... She is probably just as shocked to read this as you are that she read it.She just... (read in full...)

Am I doing the right thing?

Q.   Please help. I've been in a relationship with the same guy now for several years, but it never seems to be leading anywhere. I find it difficult to discuss our future with him. He's so laid back about it.. like we have unlimited time.. but I'm...

A.   8 June 2010: Ditto to the above answer big time COMMUNICATION is the key if you cant do that ...it aint gonna work Do what you have to do you dont want to live with regrets We only get one chance here on this earth open your arms and heart and take what yo... (read in full...)

One way street ends up a dead end!

Q.   I am married to an older man of 17 years, who he has been previously married for almost 20 years. We have been in our relationship for almost 7 years. He has two adult daughters who hate me and are not afraid of showing it. I have a son who is 10 ...

A.   8 June 2010: im sorry I would have to show the red card That sounds terrible he is being direspectfuland that is not on Who the hell does he think he is What does he want He isnt showing you that he loves and supports you or your feelings You need to be... (read in full...)

I feel alone but I don't want to leave! What should I do?

Q.   Hello, could someone please give me some advice here. I have been with my partner now for 2 years. I moved area and job and all my friends to be with him. he has 2 children from a previous marriage. He sees them a lot but they are not easy kids. ...

A.   8 June 2010: Make a date with him,go out for tea or a picnic somewhere away from the everyday surroundings ,and have some fun and TALK Just like the kids are scheduled in you need to make a positive move for yourself, and schedule your time with him remember... (read in full...)

My daughter and her female friend are much closer than I think!!!

Q.   My 18 year old daughter just moved home for the summer, she has been away at school for the last year. She asked if she could invite a friend home for the week and we said yes. She seemed like a nice girl , friendly and they seemed to get along ...

A.   8 June 2010: No dont tell Does it really matter you wont change the way they feel they might just be experimenting?? It is still your daughter & we will never agree totally with every single partner they bring home or are spending time with Although ... (read in full...)

I always go in this rage of jealousy- throwing his stuff away, confronting people.. heeeelp!

Q.   Hi everybody. I need u guys help. I need to stop jealous for no reason to my boyfriend. We been dating for 4 years and we fight like every week for same reason. That's jealous things. I don't like any girl look at him or talk to him. We have all ...

A.   8 June 2010: Hey there I know just how you feel been there done that I know you wanted a guy to help you but sorry Im not.. It all comes back to self esteem you have to tell your self & believe in your self you are beautiful inside & out find all those be... (read in full...)

What do you do, when you're in Junior High and your boyfriend wants to do more than you feel comfortable with?

Q.   My bf keeps wanting to go far butvi just laugh it off what should I do? I mean he's a great kisser and super sweet and lots of fun but I don't want him to go that far with me we r still in jr high :/...

A.   7 June 2010: Let me ask you this question...what would you do if your bestest g/f asked you to lie on the train tracks with her and both get run over by a train? Im assuming you would say to her something like I love you to bits but really ...is this nece... (read in full...)

He is not sure if he is "in love" with me anymore, how can I get him to see I am still the same person he fell in love with?

Q.   So I've been with my bf for 8 years now. He's 31, I'm 40. Last week he told me he loved me, but wasn't "in love" with me anymore. He says he loves me and wants me to be in his life, but isn't sure if he's "in" love with me enough to stay together. ...

A.   7 June 2010: If you really believe you havent.. changed then you havent! Has he changed ? what has changed ? Is he going thru some mid life crisis? As hard as it is you know that deep in your heart you dont want someone there for a piece of furniture we... (read in full...)

HOW TO FIND THE ONE

Q.   HOW TO FIND 'THE ONE' IN A SEA OF FINICKY FISH! Ladies or men having troubles finding or staying in love. I'm here to tell you how you can make it work or find what your looking for. The main goal of human existence besides success ...

A.   7 June 2010: Very well said GOLD ... (read in full...)

I found a tool to free myself...could it help you too?

Q.   I have recently made a discovery. I’m not sure what you could call it really. A technique? A tool? Whatever it may be, I am in amazement. It is really helping me. I have no idea where it has come from, this idea. It just popped into my mind the ...

A.   7 June 2010: Good on you ....you know what it may just work because of the positive thinking associated with it..You are freeing yourself fromt the problem ... Im going to try it anyway SNIP! GONE :) ... (read in full...)

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