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Is he flirting with me?

Q.   well there's this guy, im in his class, but he never knew me before. I was just put in his class last week or 2 ago. He knows my name good for not hearing it before. Now he stands over me (he is much taller then me), puts his hands on my desk and ...

A.   7 February 2013: I believe he is flirting with you. Guys don't usually waste time in anything that doesn't interest them. If he is seeking you out, talking to you first, etc he probably likes you.... (read in full...)

Infatuated with a mutual friend of my husband's

Q.   I have become infatuated with a mutual friend of my husband. We have all been very close for over 15 years. We have always play flirted ( yes, even in front of our significant others - we have all played around like that forever) but he started ...

A.   5 February 2013: You're bored and need some excitement in your life. WE ALL GO THROUGH THIS. Sure you love your husband but the excitement of this other guy has you obsessed. Only you can decide what is best for you. If you decide to go further with this guy, a... (read in full...)

Mixed signals or simply uninterested?

Q.   I have been flirting with this boy for almost a month. I definitely like him but he's the most confusing guy I've ever met. First of all, he texts me first 90% of the time, asks me out, texts me at 4 AM to check if I'm all right (I was pretty d...

A.   3 February 2013: If he is putting any time or effort into you, he likes you. Us guys are lazy. He is probably trying to be respectful, and not make any first moves with you as to not upset you. The best thing to do is TALK TO HIM about it. Communicate. Let him... (read in full...)

I wanted to spend my life with him but alcoholic b/f broke things off. I'm devastated!

Q.   Long story shortnened for sake of this posting. I am madly (still) in love with a man who has severe issues. (alcoholism, child custody drama) but who I feel such a special connection with I cant move on. We were friends for a while then start...

A.   3 February 2013: I've been in your shoes. It never gets better. What you're going through right now, today with him, is the best your relationship is going to be. It will only get worse. Leave with your sanity before it's too late. These people are black holes ... (read in full...)

Met a gorgeous guy on the train but he has a girlfriend!

Q.   Hello Everyone This Week I met a guy. The way I met him and started talking seems like it belongs in a movie. Basically I was waiting in the train station waiting for my train number to be announced. When they finally called it I headed down the ...

A.   3 February 2013: First of all, he is interested in you: Conversation, hugs, number exchange. However, he is probably only interested in sex. The first thing you knew about him is he has a girlfriend. That is probably BS as he wanted to see how you reacted. If ... (read in full...)

B/f takes 20 minutes to respond to texts and comes back with cliche responses. Is something up?

Q.   Big dilemma you guys ill try and keep it short. I really need some help. My boyfriend is 22 and works on a boat for 2 weeks of the month. Well, all day he texts me like once every couple of hours, and on his lunch break, like once. When he gets off ...

A.   3 February 2013: Yes you are blowing this out of proportion and probably driving him nuts. He is at work. Leave him alone so he can focus and not have to worry about upsetting you every 10 min. Relax or you will shot yourself in the foot and he will go somewhere ... (read in full...)

Does my growing attraction to another guy signal a loss of interest in my boyfriend?

Q.   hi Okay my bf has a friend... well a guy in his form they say they are mates but they seem kinda fake and argue and banter alot! anyway... I am also kinda mates with this guy we met last summer and started talking I got him to go out with...

A.   3 February 2013: iAmHereToHelpYou is dead on. Stay single and sample a little of everything. Life is too short for rushed relationships.... (read in full...)

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