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Should I wipe the street with his ass?

Q.   I need advice. Here is the background. My wife is a teacher and has been at the same school for 3 years now. Well, she told me a little after the beginning of this school year (last October) that this guy, who is an ex-boyfriend started teaching at ...

A.   6 February 2009: Either he doesn't go to the "get together" or your wife doesn't. If he shows up again, tell your wife that she can't attend as long as he's there. Simple as that. Just want to add... if you explain to your wife that you are uncomfortable with the ... (read in full...)

I don't know my husband after 16 years, he says he has been unhappy?! Help, I'm torn.

Q.   I have been with my husband for over 18 years, married almost 16. My husband is passive aggressive and is 51 years old and I am 47. We have always gotten along well, though he always had the tendency to internalize things, and we overa...

A.   5 February 2009: It's hard to help through a message board, but you really need to find a way to calm yourself. You are very vulnerable right now. Be very careful about making any rash decisions. You have to really ask yourself if you want this marriage or not. ... (read in full...)

I don't know my husband after 16 years, he says he has been unhappy?! Help, I'm torn.

Q.   I have been with my husband for over 18 years, married almost 16. My husband is passive aggressive and is 51 years old and I am 47. We have always gotten along well, though he always had the tendency to internalize things, and we overa...

A.   5 February 2009: Your husband is in the wayward spouse fog. His affair is most likely continuing. There are things you can do to salvage your marriage if you really want to save it. I don't know if I'll get in trouble for plugging another website, but get over to ... (read in full...)

How can I get over my wife's affair, we are seperated but have a little girl

Q.   I have been married for 2 and a half years. My wife left me 2 months before our second anivarsary. It was for various reasons and there was fault on both sides. I realize this now after several months of counselling. After 4 months we managed to ...

A.   5 February 2009: Try MarriageBuilders.com... there is a lot of help there for men who's wives have had affairs. Your situation is very similar to mine. I was married to my wife for about two years and then we separated. In that time my wife went on dates and ... (read in full...)

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