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My hormones are raging like a wildfire!

Q.   My hormones are raging like a wildfire!!!I'm only 15 and why am i feeling this way..I'm so horny all the time and can't even stop from being that way. I feel like i need sex every freaking day. Does that make me a sex addict?...

A.   22 May 2012: the answer is no. you have got to the stage in life where the toys you used to occupy yourself with are not the ones you take into womenhood.you are normal. we all feel this way and for lots of us it never stops.this is now the time for you to shape ... (read in full...)

I feel unattractive compared to the women in porn my husband watches

Q.   I love sex, especially with my husband. My husband is rarely in the mood. There is an age differance of 15 years, he is 26 and I'm 41. I would have sex everyday if I could. He likes watching porn on the internet. Which makes me feel awful, because I ...

A.   22 May 2012: its not surprising you feel this way.i am lucky with my husband we both enjoy the porn we like together.are you involved with his porn interest or do you choose to stay in the background?im not to sure as you dont say.he shouldnt make you feel ... (read in full...)

How do I get him to give me more sex?

Q.   I'm 33, my boyfriend is 31 and we've been together about 10 months. We only see each other on the weekend because we live an hour away from each other. He usually comes and stays at my place Friday night thru Sunday. Pretty much since the beginning ...

A.   22 May 2012: we all can do the i used to......act and i think this is kinda lame.i bet you could do the i once had three guys at once after me speech too.if he doesnt seem your the shag of the century after all you do to attract is advances tell him your busy ... (read in full...)

How can I tell him that I liked the dirty talk?

Q.   I had sex with this guy and when he climaxed he cussed up a storm I really liked it a lot it was a turn on. He said the sex was too good that so thats why he did it. Before he never did that does that mean before it wasn't good? I want him to ...

A.   22 May 2012: this is quite common for women who feel they are degrading themselves enormously by enjoying being called derogitory names and being belittled during sex.the sex you have is your sex and yours to share and if you enjoy hearing your partner call you ... (read in full...)

Can you have ED without a cause?

Q.   I'm in my forties , healthy guy, and I live in a good relationship with my wife. So one day suddenly, after years without any problem, I just lost my erection, in the middle of sex. We didn't think too much about it, but when I tried it again, it ...

A.   22 May 2012: to be honest this is normal.it is understanding.for me to answer your question. the more you try to regain your erection the harder it denies you.then you get the anxiety setting in and the concious voices niggling you too.its the age that this type ... (read in full...)

Would it be okay to ask my boyfriend who's texting him so late at night, or is it none of my business?

Q.   sometimes really late at night (2-4 am) I can hear my boyfriend's phone go off (text message sound on an iphone). this has only happened a few times, but it makes me feel uncomfortable. would it be okay for me to ask who is texting him so l...

A.   7 May 2012: sometimes at nights you can get a credit reminder not always but sometimes you wake up find your phone and its your phone providers reminder message.you shouldnt be scared to ask him anyways and he should be telling you who texted him its just trust ... (read in full...)

He was watching porn when I was asleep next to him!

Q.   Hey! Last night I fell asleep next to my fiancé while he was watching a movie on his computer. He left the computer on and this morning I saw that he'd been looking at porn while I was asleep next to him. I didn't say anything, but then over ...

A.   7 May 2012: i have done the same thing tonight. she was asleep i watched porn and trying to find some stuff she likes to watch as well so i can watch it with my girl when she wakes up. im marrying her in a few weeks too. i dont know but have you banned porn ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend wants me to hurt her during sex, is this normal?

Q.   MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined ive been in a relationship for a year and 4 months now and my girlfriend has changed in terms of our sex life. she keeps asking me for 'punishment sex' and when we are having sex she tells me to hurt her and make her blee...

A.   7 May 2012: wow sounds like you all go to bed reading books called "cautious sex for the faint hearted" or "having sex, the governmental guide" or "sex for the too afraid to ask" or the classic best seller "what will the neighbours think sex guide" ok right you ... (read in full...)

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