He still wants to be best friends, but won't explain why he broke up with me. I still love him!
Q. Hello, I'm just looking for a bit of advice really. My boyfriend of a year broke up with me recently giving me no reasons why. He said that I was still the most amazing girl he has ever met and there is no one else he is interested in, a...
A. 23 September 2009: I know how much it can hurt - it really is the hardest thing seeing someone when you feel such emotion. But you do need to concentrate on making new friends and getting on with life at Uni. If he is confused - well let him be confused without ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend pushing me to get a breast lift
Q. I am 20 and my breasts have been sagging since I was 18, when I lost a lot of weight. My boyfriend has for quite a long time been asking me(frequently) if I could get a breast lift done in the future. As of now I don't have the money but should I ...
A. 21 September 2009: Only have surgery if its something that you want....its a big step and you should be doing or for you.... I know that you have said that you have tried exercises and creams etc - but have you tried a gym where you could maybe get a qym instructor... (read in full...)
Yikes!!! Am I pregnant? Please help.
Q. Hi, I'm 16 but I'm really worried. I had sex with my ex boyfriend and we used a condom but I've missed my period, I'm 28 days late and I'm really scared because I've had this funny feeling in my stomach and sometimes I feel like I'm about to come ...
A. 20 September 2009: You really do need to get a pregnancy test kit - it really is the only way to move forward. I know its scary but knowing one way or the other is the only way that you can make appropiate decisions. It may also lead to peace of mind if you are in ... (read in full...)
How can I show my long distance girlfriend of 2 months that I love her?
Q. Okay how can I show my long distance girlfriend of 2 months that I love her? She said I'm not allowed to send her antyhing because she's not a materialistic person and there's more to dating than gifts. So any ideas?...
A. 20 September 2009: Yep - poetry is a great idea. Also love letters/emails/texts. What about inexpensive presents, is this allowed?? It's not about the money - but about the thought.... (read in full...)
I'm gay and want to marry a woman so I can have children. How do I go about this?
Q. hi,am a gay man.36 yrs old have not hraed sex with woman but am willing bcoz i have to.i want to live a normal life.i want children.but am sacerd to have sex,i dont no if i can get it up.am african and is really important i have children.and if i ...
A. 20 September 2009: A child is not a commodity or something that can make life right - a child should only be brought into the world for all the right reasons and your reasons seem wholly wrong. If you are gay thats great - but why would you force yourself on some more ... (read in full...)
I like him as more than a friend, what can I do?
Q. I dated this guy for two months, and then he broke up with me saying that he didn’t fancy me and that he could only be my friend, so now we have been friends for a year. I like him more then a friend and not sure what to do?...
A. 20 September 2009: If he has made it clear that he just wants to be friends - then there really isn't anything that you can
do.If it's going to hurt you should he have a girlfriend then you do need to question why you are his friend - if you are hoping that he chan... (read in full...)
Self esteem shot..can it be recovered?
Q. Can your self esteem recover from years of being put down by your boyfriend? My boyfreind and i have been together for nearly 3 years. I moved into his house when he asked me to, and things were great. Until small things started to emerge, he sent ...
A. 20 September 2009: Yes - you really do need to leave, its actually painful reading how he treats you. As someone has said - even if you have to sleep on your mums floor until you sort yourself, then so be it.
In order for any man to respect you, you do indeed need... (read in full...)
I've repeatedly told her I don't love her and don't want children with her but we are still together
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for about five years and lived with her and I have reapeatedly told her that I don't love her and I don't want her to be the mother of my kids I just don't know what to do. She has lost her job and now has a new job ...
A. 20 September 2009: Nobody wants to hurt anyone but I honestly think that the longer you stay with her - the more you are truly hurting her. She deserves to be someone that loves her and DOES want her to be the mother of their children. No doubt she is scared and ... (read in full...)
I gave him my virginity and he's already moved on
Q. I've just broke up from a short relationship problem is i lost my virginity to him im 17 and i thought he was special we broke up on monday and it was last night (saturday) and hese already found someone. I keep crying and i don;t know wet...
A. 20 September 2009: Yep - unfortunately, guys of a certain age just want one thing - as as we have to deal with so much emotion, it's so unfair how some guys can just move on without a care in the world. It's so hurtful and of course you want to cry and it's natural to ... (read in full...)
His priorities are all screwed up how can I make him see this?
Q. Hello. I feel kinda silly asking for advice online, but I am confused and in need of the advice so here it goes... I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. He just recently moved out into his own place that he shares w...
A. 20 September 2009: Not much to add but having read your question - I really do feel that you have asked the questions and actually answered them yourself....
Good luck and take care - you truly deserve better.... (read in full...)
He wants to change my status of virgin to non-virgin
Q. I am 13 and there is is boy that i really like. we've been going out for about 3weeks and 1night we were talking on the phone and he said,"are you a virgin?" so i said "yes" and then he said "do you want me to change that?" i didnt say anything back ...
A. 18 September 2009: Nothing too much to add here as others have already said it but never ever have sex whether it be for first time or not unless you are ready and it's your decision And having sex for the first time is not easy and it's something that you will carry ... (read in full...)
What can I do about my vaginal rash? It's been almost two months and won't budge.
Q. I went overseas in July of this year and ever since then I have had this consistently annoying rash around the entrance to my vagina. That's almost two months now! It started when I got my period a few days after arriving back home and it was ...
A. 18 September 2009: I am sure that there will be someone else who maybe able to identify if it is a std and if you have symptoms.
But my concern is that you really should be going back to the doctor or see a nurse at a 'well woman clinic'. It sounds so very pain... (read in full...)
Where is this going?
Q. so, its 6 years we have known each other 5 and a half we have been a couple, since feb we have lived together. he is a part of my life in every way christmas with my family, birthdays new year. but i have never met his parents, and i cant do it ...
A. 16 September 2009: I really feel for you - and the reason I want to reply to you as I am in fact Asian. There are alot of 2nd generation Asians that though they want to break away from tradition and parental expectations, they find it very hard to dissapoint their ... (read in full...)
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