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I need advice how to find out if a woman is interested in me, without risking spoiling our working relationship

Q.   ok need advice b4 saturday night am going on a work night out and the women whos going in frank i fancy the pants off her she 24 and am 19 (her x bf was 19 to so i dont think age will be massive issue and i am mature for my age)i wanna no if theres ...

A.   8 July 2008: Hi mate. Your situation sounds very similiar to one I found myself in about a year ago. Looking back I now know the mistakes I made then, so my advice would be to do...nothing, at least for the time being. You work with this woman so firstly ... (read in full...)

She is going back to her ex, but we still care about each other and I want to be supportive

Q.   Hi I wrote a few months ago about a situation I'd found myself in with a woman I work with. We'd been out a few times and quickly realised that we both liked each other alot. She'd had a particularly rough time in her previous relationship wit...

A.   4 July 2007: Yeah cheers Eddie. I tell you, six months ago I never thought I'd find myself in a situation like this! I'm proud of the way I'm handling it at the moment. It's so tough, especially when others say we're made for each other and she says I'm the only ... (read in full...)

She and her child went back to the abusive ex bf! But.. did she really mean what she said to me?

Q.   Hi. I wrote a few weeks ago about a workmate who I'd been seeing for a couple of weeks. She has a child and had a turbulent, sometimes abusive time with her ex. I've been apprehensive about moving things forward too quickly as I wanted her to be ...

A.   13 June 2007: Thanks Mandy7. Everything you said makes sense. I managed to exchange a few texts with her today and everything seems ok, although she did feel bad that things may never be the same again between us. I want her in my life though, even if it's as a ... (read in full...)

Despite the abuse, she wants to make a go of it with the ex. Should I give this up?

Q.   I was told that a workmate fancied me. I vowed to myself that I'd play it cool as she's got a child from a previous relationship in which she also suffered abuse. I wanted to get to know her properly first before anything else happened and also to ...

A.   24 May 2007: Thanks for your thoughts everyone, definately tnings that have been running through my mind. I guess patience is the key but it's not always easy. Time seems to be moving to fast but progress seems too slow. I'll keep being a friend to her and ... (read in full...)

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