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Can't stop thinking about my doctor, even though I'm engaged and he's married...

Q.   I am 23 years old and have been with my fiance for 6 years. I have seriously attracted to my doctor. My doctor is 33 years old and is married. He also have two kids with his wife. I can't stop thinking about him. I think about him at work, ...

A.   30 September 2005: Let me get this right....Your 23, in a 6 year relationship since your were 17, you call your boyfriend your fiance and now interested in your doctor who happens to be married, has 2 kids and sees [LOTS] of women all day long... who I might add, can ... (read in full...)

Not sure if my feelings for my boyfriend are genuine, so I keep breaking up with him.

Q.   Me and my ex boyfriend have going out on and off for the last 3 years. Whenever we've split up it's been my choice because I just get all confused and maybe want more or something. We last split up in June/July and now I'm really missing him. He ...

A.   30 September 2005: First off... do you really think this guy is the only one in the world for you? It comes down to being emotionally ready. If you're not sure or are not consistant with how you feel then you're not ready. And that's really ok. It's just not the ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend shaves her legs in public...

Q.   I am 21 and my girlfriend is 19. She shaves her legs in public - when we were on the beach she did it, and got attention (negative!) What do I do about this habit of hers?...

A.   29 September 2005: Some people are clueless/ or not in the way they affect others. If asking her nicely not to do it in front of you hasn't worked then step it up a bit. You can refuse to go to the beach with her until she has shaved her legs first. Be clear on how ... (read in full...)

Are my problems with sex and intimacy a result of my abuse?

Q.   My world changed when I was 12. I was sexually abused by my mum's boyfrend. Nobody knows and they're still together now. Only thing is I find it really hard to open up to people. I often sit in my room by myself. There's so many thngs in my head ...

A.   29 September 2005: I am a mother of 3 adult daughters. You are not alone in the world of sexual abuse. Your feelings and actions are typical. You can and will survive this with the proper help. There are dedicated professionals that can help you through this as well ... (read in full...)

I not only found out my husband was cheating on me, I heard it over the phone!

Q.   I have been married for 16 years. We have always have a fairly turbulent relationship but he love is strong. Three years ago he cheated on me. He doesn't know why he did it but he did it twice. I knew of his adultery when I received a phone...

A.   28 September 2005: It comes down to what you're willing to accept as part of your marriage. You cannot commit to him until you've fully commited to yourself. I personally promised myself before I got married that this kind of behavior had no excuss for him ... (read in full...)

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