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Crippling retroactive jealousy - does it get better?

Q.   My battle with retroactive jealousy: - It's been almost 2.5 years. Improvements: - It is getting better. I can function normally in last one year. - Hearth shattering instant images no longer pops up. - It is getting less visual. - I kinda g...

A.   4 January 2017: Well , I've been to another psychiatrist. I've been told that I'm very unlikely to get over it.. ever. But obsessions are like humans and they do age therefore I'll be most likely be a little bit better in the future. On the other hand he also ... (read in full...)

Is this retroactive jealousy or is it abuse?

Q.   I'm not sure whether my boyfriend is suffering from retroactive jealousy or is actually a bad and possibly abusive person, what do you think? Story - we are 25 and 28, about the same number of partners (+1 for me), neither of us feels insecure, ...

A.   19 May 2016: It's been a while till OP posted this question but I still wanted to share my thoughts as I'm exactly going through what your boyfriend did. It really feels like abuse in my opinion. But I don't think he likes or doing it on purpose. RJ is a devast... (read in full...)

Please please help me! Retroactive jealousy is driving me insane and it's getting out of control

Q.   (Ps. English is not my mother tongue so I apologize for the grammar errors etc..) Hello; It's been more than a year since I started to date my girlfriend (fiancee). Unfortunately I'm in the claws of retroactive jealousy. I guess there is not a...

A.   25 April 2016: I'm an intelligent person. I can too notice that the lack of experience and "missed out" feeling is the core of my problem. But unfortunately the problem has several inter-connected links with other belief systems and moral values that I've gathered ... (read in full...)

Please please help me! Retroactive jealousy is driving me insane and it's getting out of control

Q.   (Ps. English is not my mother tongue so I apologize for the grammar errors etc..) Hello; It's been more than a year since I started to date my girlfriend (fiancee). Unfortunately I'm in the claws of retroactive jealousy. I guess there is not a...

A.   24 April 2016: Dear CindyCares; I want my son to have as much as sex possible while my daughter to stay virgin until marriage. The reason? I wish I had known. It's most likely about sexual conduct of society. Throughout history, woman who were virgin assumed a... (read in full...)

Please please help me! Retroactive jealousy is driving me insane and it's getting out of control

Q.   (Ps. English is not my mother tongue so I apologize for the grammar errors etc..) Hello; It's been more than a year since I started to date my girlfriend (fiancee). Unfortunately I'm in the claws of retroactive jealousy. I guess there is not a...

A.   24 April 2016: Hello Chigirl; Thank you for your long input which was very valuable for me. I know the problem I'm having as you stated actually injected to my belief system from an early age from outside. But when something planted in your brain while you ... (read in full...)

Please please help me! Retroactive jealousy is driving me insane and it's getting out of control

Q.   (Ps. English is not my mother tongue so I apologize for the grammar errors etc..) Hello; It's been more than a year since I started to date my girlfriend (fiancee). Unfortunately I'm in the claws of retroactive jealousy. I guess there is not a...

A.   24 April 2016: Hello chigirl; I've been only with one woman other than my current fiancee but my relationship was very brief. I'm 100% sure that lack of sexual experience in early years of my life is the main contributor of RJ (Interestingly I see this pat... (read in full...)

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