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I broke up with her, now my conscience is cursing me for hurting her...

Q.   I broke up with my 17 year old girlfriend because i wasnt in love with her. I broke the news without any warning and probably with the silliest reason that i was committment phobic... she was devastated! I had no other way to end this and i was ...

A.   5 May 2009: I understand why you feel like calling her and letting her know that she's not suffering alone.. but you're right when you say that it would only make things worse.. it could even give her some hopes that you'll get back with her. From my perso... (read in full...)

Even though the condom didn't break and the test came out negative, could I be pregnant?

Q.   I had sex for the very first time just over 2 weeks ago. I was 9 days into my cycle. We used an extra safe condom, which we checked after hadnt split and we also tried putting water into it and seeing if any leaked out, which it didnt showing there ...

A.   5 May 2009: You shouldn't be pregnant. Considering that it was your first time, I'm guessing that your late period is due to stress. There's no need to worry if you used the condom the whole time when having sex. So don't worry, your period should be comi... (read in full...)

It's a love/hate thing we have going on! Any advice would be appreciated.

Q.   Hey, I would really appreciate some advice here! I have been obsessed (this is an understatement) with this guy for a year now and for most of this time we have not been on speaking terms. He claims to hate me and my feelings towards him vary ...

A.   5 May 2009: I think that the best for you is to forget about this boy. He sounds extremely childish acting like that around you and insulting you on facebook and msn. There are people who are worth fighting for, but if you can't even say this guy is your friend ... (read in full...)

Husband's porn viewing has made me feel small

Q.   My husband's porn viewing has made me feel small recently. He's been looking at pictures of "hot guys", shirtless pictures of men including Gael Garcia Bernal, George Clooney, David Beckham and Russell Brand. It makes me feel like I can't compete ...

A.   5 May 2009: For how long has been doing this? You've got to have a serious talk with him. It's extremely rude of him to compare your body to men's and not to have sex with you for that reason.. it makes me think that he's not bisexual, but homosexual. And if t... (read in full...)

Help...I had unprotected sex and missed a period!

Q.   hey every1 i need sum advice urgently...so im only 13 and im goin out with a guy who is 2 years older than me. my boyfrend started pressuring me into sex but i told him no and i kept saying no and now he has finally understood my answer. But anyway ...

A.   4 May 2009: If you didn't get your period, you should do a pregnancy test. You can get it at any pharmacy and you can do it in your house. I really hope for you that you're not pregnant, otherwise don't be afraid to talk about it with your parents and decide ... (read in full...)

Scared to death..to tell my Mom, I am pregnant!

Q.   I turn 16 last month and five months ago, I was raped by a masked man. I was a virgin before it happened and then three months ago, I found out I'm pregnant. Nobody knows anything except for my best friend (he's a guy) and he tells me that if I ...

A.   4 May 2009: Sweety, you've got to tell your mother about it all: how it happened and what it led to. Please don't think that any of this is your fault because it's not. Your mother will be more than understanding and she'll help you make the right decisions ... (read in full...)

I had sex while menstuating 2 weeks ago. Could I be pregnant now?

Q.   Please help me out.. I am in need of a pregnancy test which I can only buy tomorrow (everything close today). I am panicking because today it struck me I might be pregnant because: I am 2 weeks after my period, in which I had full intercourse ( no ...

A.   4 May 2009: It is possible to get pregnant if you have unprotected sex during your period, although the chances are lower. If I'm not wrong, the pregnancy test must be done when you're supposed to be getting your period, so you'd have to wait until then, ... (read in full...)

He's a year younger..should I date him?

Q.   hey everyone,i am 18 years old.. i met this guy through a common friend.. he actually goes to the same school as me,but he is 1 year younger than me.. i like him,but i think he's too young.. should i go for it?? thanks in advance.....

A.   4 May 2009: I'm sure you've heard that girls mature faster than boys, especially in their teens. This doesn't have to apply to ALL boys, though, but if you'd like to start a relationship with him, it's good to get to know him better before and see just how ... (read in full...)

Should I be jealous of his past?

Q.   I am very in love with my boyfriend of two years, the only problem is my extreme jealousy which tears me up inside. he has had one other major relationship in his life and a few other fairly major relationships whereas he is my first boyfriend and ...

A.   3 May 2009: First of all, I can relate so much to your situation! My boyfriend's exs made of me an incredibly jealous person in the past, and it got so bad that I almost broke up with him several times. What I've learnt from my experience is that jealousy is... (read in full...)

What has happened to him?

Q.   Hello His 17 and i am 16 Basically I fancy my brothers friend and yesterday my brother and his girlfriend went outside and told him in my front garden if he fancies me and he just said no my brothers girlfriend called me and he said to me “Loo...

A.   3 May 2009: I've had something similar happen to me. Years ago I had a crush on my brother's best friend and I knew he liked me too, but he wouldn't admit it to anyone, and even less to my brother, for fear of losing him as a friend. If your brother's friend... (read in full...)

Country girl finding it impossible to find love

Q.   i have very basic question. how do i get a boyfriend how do i get a guy to fancy me.even though i am fat,short,plain looking,30+ age and feel over the hill and no guy be interested in me because older and no longer in my 20s .who shy and find it ...

A.   3 May 2009: You've got to change your own attitude before you can change everybody else's attitude towards you. By this I mean that you've got to do whatever makes you feel more confident: new clothes, new haircut, start exercising if you don't feel ok with ... (read in full...)

I was going to ask him out in a few days but now I'm not sure

Q.   okay i like this boy and he likes me too. everything was going great last week.. until friday. we were speaking and smiling and everything to each other. but on friday i seen him at lunch at school and he walked past and i think he said hi to me but ...

A.   3 May 2009: Hi jayfinnigan, Sounds like this guy is thinking the same as you. If he greeted you and you didn't greet him back because you didn't hear him, he could be thinking that you have something against him and that you're not taking him seriousl... (read in full...)

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