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How can I get on top and go at it more quickly?

Q.   I know this sounds stupid, but when me and my bf have sex, when I'm on top (like, resting slightly forward, putting weight on my hands which are either side of his head) I can't seem to go fast enough. It's hard to go fast, and I know this is how h...

A.   22 January 2008: As you've no doubt noticed, the physics of the female on top isn't exactly equivalent to the opposite situation. You're using your leg muscles primarily, in a rather restricted range of motion, to move your entire torso up and down (or forward and ... (read in full...)

Any advice on what to do with my hymen problem????

Q.   Heya. I used a tampon once and it really hurt me. So i haven't done it since. My boyfriend and i are thinking about sex but i am really scared of the pain. I did horseback riding for 8 years and i have done football, but my hymen is still ...

A.   29 December 2007: The key to a pleasant first time is taking it slow. Slower than you think you need to. Relaxation is important - the vaginal muscles can tense up just like any other muscle, and that will make penetration difficult for you both. A penis should p... (read in full...)

My bf is so loving but I just don't seem to want sex and its tearing me apart.

Q.   I have a loving boyfriend we have been together about 10 months now, but for some strange reason i just don't want sex? I don't remember being like this with my ex's, but i have never felt this strongly about anyone before. I was sexually harrass...

A.   24 December 2007: Is it just this current boyfriend that you don't want to have sex with? Have you experienced sexual desire for anyone else, such as previous boyfriends or crushes (or even fantasy figures)? If you've never felt any desire, period, it may be long-... (read in full...)

I want to do "more stuff" with my boyfriend but I am unexperienced too and I don't know how to bring it up and how not to make it all awkward?

Q.   hello readers i am asking you this question and i really hope i'm not being juged but it doesn't matter because i'm anonymous haha so here it goes..... ok so me and my boy friend have been going out for 2 months now and we'v been best friends for...

A.   24 December 2007: First off, it's *great* that you realize that sex is not all-or-nothing, but that there's all sorts of 'more stuff' to do that both of you will enjoy without straying into territory you don't feel ready for. The million dollar question is, what... (read in full...)

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