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Just met a guy in a club, he wants me to go to his house this Saturday. What should I do?

Q.   ive been out with a guy that i met in a club, our date was good. now he wants me to go to his house on saturday. what should i do?...

A.   1 November 2007:  I would say a lot depends on his age / personality. If he's your age & seems easy going & his friends seem ok - it's ok to call to his house, but for all sorts of reasons I wouldn't stay at his place for another few dates. If nothing else he will... (read in full...)

Is it normal to feel so lost after breaking up?

Q.   OK, last night I broke up with my bf of 4.5 yrs, we have'nt really been happy for the last yr or so as we lost our spark and both of us did nothing to help our relationship until it was too late. Last night, I sat him down and told him we are ...

A.   31 October 2007: Of course it's normal. People who are single for years feel lost. It's better to have tried surely? Look at it this way, you're still young, imagine having this situation with 3 kids & being 45 years old?? Life is a journey i guess, & as long... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is off to Iraq, but I think I might be pregnant , how do I tell him?

Q.   Okay I have a question...first of all I am "kinda" getting back together with my ex from 3 yrs ago. He is a military officer and going to Iraq in December and will be there until probably August. He said he is serious but doesn't want to make a ...

A.   31 October 2007: An awkward situation. I would let him know gently, but also state that it may not be a positive result - as you are awaiting results. There is no point in being in a relationship if you feel you are afraid to talk about something so important. We ... (read in full...)

I feel she is inconsiderate to me as concerns her relation with her ex, and others have noticed too she's putting me in an incomfortable position. Am I being unreasonable/jealous?

Q.   I met a great girl 8 months ago. We get on fantastic. But a little problem is starting to put tension and barriers between us. we have run into her ex b/f on a number of occasions. On the first occasion at her local pub she chatted with him...

A.   24 October 2007: yeah, the problem is her family is close friends with him. But I still maintain that you must set a cear boundary with ex's in order to give a new relationship a chance. I cant figure if she's just Not a jealous person or if flirting with him is ... (read in full...)

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