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I have just had an abortion and would like advice on how to get over it?

Q.   Hey, I'm looking for your help to cope with having a termination of my pregnancy last week. I had been on the pill, and it was an unplanned pregnancy with my bf of 7 months. We spent a long time discussing it, and decided it was too soon for us to ...

A.   2 July 2011: I have a lot of admiration for you to make such a mature decision like this and you obviously have a very supportive partner who you should lean on through this and in turn support him. While children are wonderful additions to a family (i have t... (read in full...)

Every time I go on a diet I end up putting back on every single pound

Q.   I know this isn't a relationship question or anything, but I could do with some help? I'm 20 years old and having some insecurities with myself. I'm 5ft 4 and 10st, a UK 12-14 and hate it. My breasts are a size 34G and and cause me constant pain...

A.   30 June 2011: Hi, i thought id put my experience of dieting in. I reaserched it heavily after i had my third baby and wanted to slim back down. My partner also helped as he is an ex body builder and all clued up. :) Dieting can be difficult especially if yo... (read in full...)

Why do more white women than white men date outside of their race?

Q.   This is just a simple question, not one with a lot details or anything. I was just wondering what people thought...um...why is it that there are more white women to date outside their race, then there are white men? I know this can be a ...

A.   29 June 2011: People date people from different races and cultures because they do not believe that skin colour or beliefs make someone "different" to themselfs. They love and care for the person they are not anything other than this. Racism is something that ... (read in full...)

My confidence has gone after dating a man way out of my league!

Q.   Ok, so here is my dilemma. I am 33, I am ok looking, not ugly and some may say pretty, but not anything special just your average girl in the looks department. I would say a 5/6 out of 10. I have happened to meet a man who is 30 and who is drop dea...

A.   28 June 2011: This guy has found a good honest woman but still wants to keep his options open because he thinks the grass is greener. He doesnt care if you walk away because he knows he wont be lonely for long. You are far, far better than this. All this t... (read in full...)

Had an affair and now I'm trying to work on things with my wife but the thought of anything intimate disgusts me.

Q.   Ok agony aunts i need your help in the worst way! Heres my problem. My wife and i have been going thru some major issues that have been causing a rift between us. Just know that regardless of my actions i do love her and i do regret what ive ...

A.   28 June 2011: You dont sound happy at all in your relationship, and to be honest you dont sound like you are ever going to be happy in which case its only fair to you AND your wife to leave. She might not be perfect for you but she is perfect for someone out ... (read in full...)

Do I deserve the same second chance I gave her?

Q.   I have been dating a girl for 21 months. Back in November, I found out by looking in her laptop that she had been talking inappropriately to other guys. That hurt me a lot and I forgave and forgot so we could move on after she apologized. Now, ...

A.   27 June 2011: I understand why your gf wont give you a second chance. Discovering that your man has been chatting to other woman causes a huge dent in the trust between two people and it causes massive issues with self confidence aswell as im sure you are aware ... (read in full...)

I don't know if my partner is emotionally abusing me or whether I need to get a grip and stop causing arguments...

Q.   im 28 weeks pregnant with my first baby. My relationship with my partner has been up and down the past couple of years, we have had some amazing times and also some pretty upsetting times, typical of any relationship. My partner runs his own busi...

A.   27 June 2011: i think its appalling that he would speak to you like that. I understand that nobody is perfect and we can all contribute to issues in our relationships but he is not handling the situation very well. It doesnt sound like he appreciates the fact you ... (read in full...)

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