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Boyfriend thinks if we move into together I should pay double his rent because he has a car!

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend now for 8 months, i am 27 and he is 28, and he is very sweet and kind and very caring. Recently, well today I was discussing perhaps moving in together in the future. I am living with a roommate and he is living with ...

A.   4 October 2010: i think you need to talk to him about it. It.s better to fully undertand where you stand before you decide to live together. Personally i think it's ridiculous that he thinks you should say more. It's his car and he chooses to have it. I could ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend thinks if we move into together I should pay double his rent because he has a car!

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend now for 8 months, i am 27 and he is 28, and he is very sweet and kind and very caring. Recently, well today I was discussing perhaps moving in together in the future. I am living with a roommate and he is living with ...

A.   4 October 2010: i think you need to talk to him about it. It.s better to fully undertand where you stand before you decide to live together. Personally i think it's ridiculous that he thinks you should say more. It's his car and he chooses to have it. I could ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend thinks if we move into together I should pay double his rent because he has a car!

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend now for 8 months, i am 27 and he is 28, and he is very sweet and kind and very caring. Recently, well today I was discussing perhaps moving in together in the future. I am living with a roommate and he is living with ...

A.   4 October 2010: i think you need to talk to him about it. It.s better to fully undertand where you stand before you decide to live together. Personally i think it's ridiculous that he thinks you should say more. It's his car and he chooses to have it. I could ... (read in full...)

Could you tell me if I am pregnant?

Q.   I was having fun with my boyfriend the other day, and we had intercourse trice.. He ejaculated outside the vagina on the stomach in the first time, we waited around 20 minutes before he got back in shape and we went at it again. i was wondering, ...

A.   3 June 2008: The best way to find out is to do a test. Sperm remain alive for a maximum of three days... So there is no way to say for sure that you might not be pregnant. In future situations like this can be avoided by using the right protection.... (read in full...)

I seem to be the one putting all the effort in. Should I end the relationship? I need input!

Q.   Ok everyone this is a big question I have and it might be a decision that I could regret but I wanna know what you all think. I've been with my girlfriend for 7 months and she's a great girl and all...but I have noticed some problems. We...

A.   3 June 2008: you're doubting the relationship and that's a bad sign. Have you told her how you feel? You need to talk about where you stand with her so you can make a more clear decision... (read in full...)

Should I make a stand that he stop drinking so heavily?

Q.   My husband and I have been married 13 years. When dating, we both liked to drink and party quite a bit. Now our children 12 year old twins) are older, and I find that I am not as interested in drinking nearly as much as he. Yes, I have changed,...

A.   3 June 2008: My ex used to drink quite heavily too and was a very aggresive drunk. I understand what you mean when you say you get angry and I also understand that you don't want your kids to grow up and think that your husbands behaviour is an acceptable way to ... (read in full...)

I'm bicurious and I want to have sex with a friend!!

Q.   I'm bicurious. I want to f__k my best friend. He's really hot! Could you guys give me tips on how to get him in bed with me? I should let you know that we both experimented with being gay a year ago, but I'm afraid he won't do it again. Help me....

A.   3 June 2008: That was terrible advice! Have you considered what would happen if he wasn't interested and you try to force yourself on him? You would lose your friendship. Would it then be worth it? I think that if you are seriously into your friend and he is ... (read in full...)

How do I orgasm without a vibrator?

Q.   how do i give my self an orgasm with out sex toys all i have is a back vibator that i use as a vibrator...

A.   3 June 2008: Well the obvious answer is to use your fingers. Just explore yourself and you'll soon find out what you like or don't like. You may not orgasm first time but be patient... (read in full...)

Very confused, what changed so fast for her? Does this guy sound controlling?

Q.   Long story short. Went out with a girl for over a year. We broke up about 3 months ago because she thought she was putting more effort into us than I was. We talked and emailed after the breakup and went out a few times and seemed like we are ...

A.   3 June 2008: I disagree with the previous comment in that we don't know about the relationship in enough detail to know ho put in the most effort. It seems to me that you do love her, otherwise why go to all this trouble to find a way to reslove the issue? The ... (read in full...)

My childhood sucks! Need advice, please!

Q.   Hey, im 13 and my childhood sucks!! but its not any1 persons fault.... its bout everyones fault mainly mine..... see i have a very large anger problem, a.d.d, and o.c.d.... i don't take any medication cuz they cost alot and i would have to be th...

A.   2 June 2008: It's a good sign that you are noticing the issues you have and are willing to get help for them, that's the first step. You need to speak to your doctor, or maybe a teacher at school. you need to let someone in authority know what is going on in ... (read in full...)

I got drunk and pregnant! Help help help!

Q.   okai my friend invited me to her house party i said sure so that night i went.they were all drinking and my friend told me 2 take a lil so i did juz that little got me on it i got really but really drunk and the only thing i remember was a dude ...

A.   2 June 2008: It seems like you're in quite a mess. Firstly do you know who the guy is? Have you seen him since? have you told him? You will also need to tell your parents and I know that might seem like the scariest thing in the world but they are going to be ... (read in full...)

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