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My ex and I are still friends and have sex, he is not sure he wants to get back together, what should I do

Q.   my exs and i broke up..we are still friends and he tells me that he misses me alot and thinks about us and we still have sex. but hes not sure if he wants to get back with me. what should i do? ...

A.   10 November 2009: I completely agree with Illithid. He's getting everything he wants and the likelihood is that even if you do get back into a relationship this will happen again and again. You should break contact with him and find someone who does respect you.... (read in full...)

We're both 13 and want to be friends with benefits, but I don't know if I'm ready!

Q.   My neighbor and I have been friends since we were 2 and now I have feelings for him cause we have been through like everthing together and we probly tell each other more then like a married couple! We are both 13... The other day he suggested...

A.   10 November 2009: This must be very confusing for you. I think the fact you have asked this question means that you are not quite ready. I think you should wait until you are in a relationship. As you have said you think you love him if he doesn't feel the same and ... (read in full...)

He thinks I don't enjoy our sex life because I don't come

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months. We have had many ups and downs but we are both crazy about each other. The only issues we have is when it comes to sex. He says he doesn't feel like a man because he can't make me cum and i'm the first pe...

A.   9 November 2009: he knows me too well. i would never try and fake it because he would know and also deserves better than that. it has been alot of fun its just annoying i can't cum for him.... (read in full...)

He wants a threesome with a woman I don't feel comfortable including! He's making me feel guilty!

Q.   My boyfriend and i participate in swing lifesome. We are not regulars but we have had 3 FFM, 3somes, Attempted about 8 MFM 3somes, not all sucessful, only to out of the 3 MFM have been successful, not all was done in them but some things happened ...

A.   9 November 2009: I'd love to talk to you some more about your experiences. Me and my boyfriend are currently looking into our first threesome. its something we both want to do. I can understand you feeling jealous about what he wants to do with another woman. From ... (read in full...)

He thinks I don't enjoy our sex life because I don't come

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months. We have had many ups and downs but we are both crazy about each other. The only issues we have is when it comes to sex. He says he doesn't feel like a man because he can't make me cum and i'm the first pe...

A.   9 November 2009: Thanks for that. I really do wish i could come for him. There's nothing i want more. I love him more than anything and i hate to think that i'm upsetting him with this even though i feel its something i have no control over. We have tried ... (read in full...)

Did I mess up taking my birth control pill?

Q.   Hi, i am just wondering what to do, I am startng on the pill and i misheard the doctor and took the first pill on saturday even though im not due my period until wednesday. I only took one of the pills becase i discovered i wasnt supposed to start ...

A.   9 November 2009: taking one pill shouldn't affect you. just remember to take them as soon as you start on your period. if you have gone on the pill as you intend to have unprotected sex it can take at least 10 days before the pill can take full affect so continue to ... (read in full...)

At 16 I'm Pregnant with my teacher's child

Q.   MOD NOTE: Poster is in a vulnerable situation, aunts DO NOT give nasty or negative advice PLEASE!!! Oh my God!Even me myself don't know what to do. I'm 16 years old.For the past year,since I started high school(it's the way in Macedonia-from 15...

A.   9 November 2009: You have had alot of good advice. All you can do is follow your heart. I think you are very brave doing this especially at your age. I had an abortion at the beginning of this year. Its not something i ever believed in doing but i knew that at the ... (read in full...)

Why can't I meet a guy who likes small breasts?

Q.   I have small breasts, and as it is known, *most* guys like big breasts better. Some like small, but I have yet to meet one of those! Most guys just settle for small chested women. Like Salma Hayek is hot because of her big boobs, but Kate Hudson is ...

A.   9 November 2009: Hi I understand how you feel. I also have small breasts but since i have been with my bf i have learned to love them. occasionally i do wish they were bigger but i know how much he loves them. Apparently they are perky and at least they won't sag ... (read in full...)

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