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I really like him so how should I proceed?

Q.   I met a guy last week and invited him to a music jam night. He came along, and that was great, but by the time he arrived I was already talking to s group of guys and he then got cornered by a woman, who then asked 'is that your girlfriend? ' and he ...

A.   11 December 2013: I am quite a bit older than you are, but courtesies are the same. When your guest arrived, why did you not excuse yourself from the group and make him feel invited? He was probably embarrassed that he had arrived and you were busy. He has given you ... (read in full...)

I can't handle the competition he puts me through! How can I make him let me be the only one he dates?

Q.   I lost my husband of 35 years in 2009. I stayed home without dating for 2 years and when ready, I decided to go online. I met a man 6 years older than I and was very impressed. In fact, I fell in love with him, but was not quite ready to jump ...

A.   18 April 2013: Thank you everyone, and especially the only male who answered anonymously. I will have to say that you are absolutely correct. I've always been a very open, honest, and loving person. i've always been very truthful and to do this to guy #2 is not ... (read in full...)

I can't handle the competition he puts me through! How can I make him let me be the only one he dates?

Q.   I lost my husband of 35 years in 2009. I stayed home without dating for 2 years and when ready, I decided to go online. I met a man 6 years older than I and was very impressed. In fact, I fell in love with him, but was not quite ready to jump ...

A.   17 April 2013: Thanks again! I appreciate the advice~! I would really like to hear from a couple male perspectives on this whole thing. Is there anyone out there who would consider doing that? According to "him", this started because he didn't think that I was ... (read in full...)

I can't handle the competition he puts me through! How can I make him let me be the only one he dates?

Q.   I lost my husband of 35 years in 2009. I stayed home without dating for 2 years and when ready, I decided to go online. I met a man 6 years older than I and was very impressed. In fact, I fell in love with him, but was not quite ready to jump ...

A.   17 April 2013: Thank you for your answers. I'm new here so didn't know exactly how "windy" to get. We met online, had a wonderful relationship. He moved to a town close by and we did the weekend thing. I noticed that after I had gone home back to work for the ... (read in full...)

Husband cheating, left me. How do you go on after this?

Q.   im soooo hurt. i dont know what to do with myself, or how to get over this betrayal. my husband of 15 years was caught red handed with a 23 year old. and now he has packed his stuff and told me he does not love me anymore.... i dont understa...

A.   16 April 2013: i am so sorry you have to go through this! Men go through midlife crisis just like women go through menopause. A real man who respects you and his family would not have done this to you. he will regret it! the little 20 something will not stay wit... (read in full...)

Should I ask her out before someone else grabs her?

Q.   I decided to ask a girl out, and asked my friend whether it was a good choice or not. He then said to me that it would be a very bad decision because she recently broke up with someone because she was too stressed with exams for a relationship. I ...

A.   16 April 2013: Yes, she may have just broke up with someone, but she is already making herself available to others to date. Why not get in on this? Communication is so important in all facets of life and if she has NO IDEA how you feel, then it just may be YOUR ... (read in full...)

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