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He said if I sleep with him he will trust me!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend on and off for the past year and a bit. I have known him for a total of 9 years. We have been in and out of touch over our friendship. About 2-3 years ago we become closer and I hooked up with a good friend of his ...

A.   26 August 2010: Trust can't be gained by sex. PERIOD. If he doesn't trust you now, having sex with him won't change that, but you are quite likely to find out that it was all he wanted in the first place. Call it off now, you may feel for him, but by what he's ... (read in full...)

I want to ask her out!

Q.   I met a girl at a house party on monday. She added me on facebook and then sent me a message on it which I replied. I'm fairly keen on her and I'f like to ask her out (will have a convo on facebook first before I consider). However I have a few prob...

A.   26 August 2010: How long had she been in this relationship, there's a big difference in a breakup when someone was in a relationship for a couple years or more, and someone in a relationship for a couple months. Perhaps it might be a good idea to ask her our to ... (read in full...)

Is this RAPE??

Q.   im not sure if this is rape... i was messing around with a guy and he started touching me...i didnt care about that but then he started putting it in and i was trying to push him off me at the hips but he was too strong.. i kept asking him to get ...

A.   26 August 2010: Well that would depend on the laws there, In America, that's clearly not only rape, but statutory rape as well, because of your age. Hopefully, someone in the UK can come forward with local laws.... (read in full...)

Should I help pay for my new stepdaughter's college?

Q.   I am a male in the USA in my 40's. I plan on getting married again in a few months. I have 2 young sons age 9 and 6. I pay support for them and see them 3 times a week. One child likes my GF the other one does not. She also does not get along with ...

A.   24 August 2010: any time you are marrying a family with children there are going to be more issues than one without. While having a joint account that is used to pay for your step-daughters college is a tough choice you definitely want to make sure you also ... (read in full...)

In love with much older man over the internet! Will people laugh?

Q.   hi everyone i am in love with a man over the internet he is so funny sweet and kind he has done alot of work on polling for elections and ive seen him on a tape why he should be elected meaning he isnt a creep he has a good backround etc but my only ...

A.   24 August 2010: If he is in any way associated to any sort of public office, I can almost guarantee the last thing he is looking for is a real relationship with someone 30 years younger than he is. Not only for him, but for the people he works for. I see it far ... (read in full...)

Is it too early to start talking Marriage??

Q.   Hey everyone i have a dilemma when i was in the 5th grade i met my first love we broke up in sixth grade and started back talking in high school about 3years ago but he was very conceited and stuck up now we are both 20 and now he have a daughter ...

A.   24 August 2010: With the track record I see there of breaking up and coming back together I would say this is still a little early, I'd recommend waiting until you're sure it's not just another swing of the pendulum. Give it some more time and be sure that it's ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't respect me!

Q.   I am 25 yrs old and my bf also 25, we always fighting,but i know that we love each other so much,but he doesnt respect me,he says what ever he want,we have been together for 3 yrs, if i tell him that he must change his behaviour,he wil tell me that ...

A.   18 August 2010: The simple and annoying truth is most men are jerks, and idiots. Which is quite simply a powerful combination. They sit around with other men hearing stories of how those men treat their woman, seeing how they react to other women and think this is ... (read in full...)

What type of women do men prefer? Petite or tall?

Q.   I have heard that short women ( 5'-5'2) with long legs are the most attractive. Is it so? What do you think about this?...

A.   18 August 2010: Plain and simply, Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Some men like small women, some like large ones, Some like a woman to look like Callista Flockhart weighing in at 90lbs, Others like Queen Latifah whose leg may come close to that number. ... (read in full...)

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