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He says he doesn't want to go further, but his actions say different

Q.   hi my question is i have a friend that i have grown closer to and now have feelings for. i asked him to be honest about were he wants to take our friendship. we are both with other people. he told me he wants to go further but has to much to loose...

A.   5 May 2008: thanks for your advice i know what you say is right,i do want something to happen with him but i also want my husband i suppose thats selfish of me wanting "my cake and eat it" but to be honest i like the attention the other man gives me,its like an ... (read in full...)

This guy is too friendly, but do you think there is a problem?

Q.   I am married happily. I am friends with one of my husband's sisters unfortunately we don't live in the same area at present, b/c we get on so well. When we go for a visit naturally we spend some time hanging out with her and her closest friends. ...

A.   4 May 2008: hi he may have picked up that you like him in some way and is testing the water,if you feel uncomfortable with what he does tell him gently that you dont want him that close or doing certain things.he proberly does feel at ease with you and he is ... (read in full...)

He says he doesn't want to go further, but his actions say different

Q.   hi my question is i have a friend that i have grown closer to and now have feelings for. i asked him to be honest about were he wants to take our friendship. we are both with other people. he told me he wants to go further but has to much to loose...

A.   4 May 2008: yes there is a marriage and children involved on one side and a partner on the other, he has had an affair in the past and got court out.its just the fact that he "dangles carrots" and says things he is always making comments about my chest size and ... (read in full...)

My in-laws hate me. It's all getting worse.

Q.   hello all - I posted a question nearly a year ago and checking it back recently I can see that people have even commented recently so thank you http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-in-laws-hate-me-and-my-husband.html I wanted to add a comment...

A.   4 May 2008: it sounds like your husband is a mummys boy have you sat down with him and told him how you feel calmly try telling him you will leave if things do not alter and how much this situation is upsetting you dont give him the big its me or them but just ... (read in full...)

My friend's girlfriend is wrecking our friendship

Q.   My friend has recently got a new girl friend. I think this is great, really I'm pleased for him. However, we are also good friends, and I enjoy our alone time where I can discuss things that I - perhaps - wouldn't feel comfortable talking about with ...

A.   4 May 2008: hi i would just be honest and striaght with your mate and just say im glad your happy with your girl friend but dont push me out as a mate ask him for a mates night out... (read in full...)

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