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Dating Rules

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8 June 2011: Because I have so many years of dating and being a strong salesman I have learned some "Dating Rules" that many have not learned yet. This article will explain "Transitional Dating." It is one of the most destructive and/or damaging relatio...

Bf broke up with me, and then says he'll take me back...but only in 2 years?! What's THAT about?

Q.   Hey.. I really need help.. I have been with this guy for 6 and a half months, we decided to have sex for the first time, and we did it a couple of times, then this one Sunday we did it and we were happily in love then on Monday he broke up with me....

A.   8 June 2011: OK, If i asked if your BF still makes "physical" contact with you then mystery solved. You are being used. No man leaves a woman he cares about where other men can get around. He cares little about you and disrespects you with 2 year drivel -... (read in full...)

How do I communicate better with people?

Q.   Hi. I am 19 and finished my first year at university. I always thought I was shy because I never talked to anyone, but now I realize that I am not shy - just boring... I have met a few good people at school this year that I am friendly with. ...

A.   8 June 2011: Excellent question .... been there. Then I starting seeking what interested ME. Discovered Sailing and that alone gave me an avenue of commonality with other "sailors." I am an older guy with a huge accomplished Bucket List -- But I still seek some... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to break up with a friend because you find their way of life offensive?

Q.   It seems like to be a good friend means to be supportive. And we are all told we should not be judgemental. But what happens if a friend has habits you find offensive and which go against your value system? Are you a terrible person if you want to ...

A.   8 June 2011: OK, Please do not take this personal. Your description of your friend is the definition of a immoral, selfish and toxic personality. She has little respect for herse3lf and thus LESS for everyone else. She has some deep problems and if not coun... (read in full...)

It feels like I am making most of the effort in this relationship.....

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for two years. We do not live together, but we go to the same uni. I feel like I need to see him more than he needs to see me. I think I initiate to spend time more than he does. He usually says yes when I ask, and ...

A.   8 June 2011: Men are natural aggressors. If it doesn't Flow -- Let Go! Your personality is stronger than his and THAT alone will eat you alive in disrespect for him eventually. He treads water while you do the rowing ... not a cruise that will end well. ... (read in full...)

Tips for dealing with stress?

Q.   Hi there, I'm 23 and I'm looking for some tips to deal with stress because I'm really struggling to cope at the moment. My dad had a stroke last year and isn't doing to great, now his sister (my aunt) has had a stroke and two heart attacks la...

A.   8 June 2011: OK, You will probably ignore this but role-play a moment. IMAGINE -- Your Mother just died; Your Boyfriend has also. Your pregnant Girl-friend is pregnant following a rape where she was disfigured and crippled. Point is ---- Once in a while im... (read in full...)

My mind is telling me to be with him but my heart is saying no...

Q.   I just broke up with my boyfriend recently due to the fact that he's disrespectful, mistreats me, cheated 4 times while we were together, when we're having problems he doesn't want to talk about it, he either ignores me or get mad and tell me to ...

A.   8 June 2011: TOXIC Personalities and relationships you see on TV every night -- some shows-- based on fact and some real -- such as Cops. WHY WHY expose yourself to such a losing personality? Unless you see yourself as more of a loser than he is. Who you date... (read in full...)

Boyfriend wants to have sex with other men saying that it's just sex

Q.   Hello guys ... So, to start off directly, my boyfriend kind of asked for permission to cheat on me, if you can then still call it cheating ... and gave me this permission, too, which doesn't really interest me since I could never do this... Th...

A.   8 June 2011: OK Bank robbery is just forced borrowing Rape is giving her what she really wants Lying is normal and doesn't really hurt Sex is Sex is a statement by a very mixed up bi-sexual which most would think is really homosexual. Problem really is you... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is smoking weed everyday....Help!

Q.   Ok so I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years, I could not ever picture my life without him but for the past couple months/weeks he has been smoking weed/grass near enough every single day.. Every time he talks to me (texting) or even when ...

A.   8 June 2011: Your boyfriend is on a track that YOU can not help him with. All that can happen is BAD for you. Have the sense and courage to get out. Leave hinm to go his path. His personality has a severe dependency flaw meaning he cannot be a friend to himself ... (read in full...)

Was it wrong to give him her email? I'm feeling bad.....help..

Q.   Hi friends...so this guy, who's my teachers friend, he kept asking about this girl who I know from my school but she doesn't know me. So I just asked him if he liked her. So he said yes. I gave him her email from facebook. Was if wrong. Because he ...

A.   8 June 2011: Not as wrong as dangerous for your friend. Your good heart could get her killed! You need to tell her immed'ly or accept what happens. You will lose her as a friend eventually at the least. At most she could lose her life.... (read in full...)

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