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My wife doesn't want sex and says I can have one night stands

Q.   My wife is 51 and I am 48. She says that she no longer feels like sex with any man, although she will reluctantly have sex with me to keep me happy. She has orgasms about half the times we have sex, but says twice a week is too much and that I ...

A.   26 October 2010: Minerals/vitamins - maybe Religion - no Making children only - dont think so Resentment - good chance Asked her to go to councelling - no way... (read in full...)

My wife doesn't want sex and says I can have one night stands

Q.   My wife is 51 and I am 48. She says that she no longer feels like sex with any man, although she will reluctantly have sex with me to keep me happy. She has orgasms about half the times we have sex, but says twice a week is too much and that I ...

A.   26 October 2010: Oh yes, Gamine, about the Civil War. That was when the North was unprepared to accept the unreasonable demands of the South that they should be allowed to enslave people and take away every bit of self respect those people had. Good job the Nort... (read in full...)

My wife doesn't want sex and says I can have one night stands

Q.   My wife is 51 and I am 48. She says that she no longer feels like sex with any man, although she will reluctantly have sex with me to keep me happy. She has orgasms about half the times we have sex, but says twice a week is too much and that I ...

A.   26 October 2010: Hi Nina That is a very insightful answer. My wife does not suffer, nor has she ever suffered from any hormonal or psychological illness. Having said that it is difficult to get her to go to the doctor for any reason (except to confirm a pregna... (read in full...)

My wife doesn't want sex and says I can have one night stands

Q.   My wife is 51 and I am 48. She says that she no longer feels like sex with any man, although she will reluctantly have sex with me to keep me happy. She has orgasms about half the times we have sex, but says twice a week is too much and that I ...

A.   25 October 2010: "Remember, the general who surrenders (calls a truce) has not given up on his reasons for going to war. He has merely realized that the war can't continue" I thought I would hear better from an American. Your country has stood against the unreason... (read in full...)

My wife doesn't want sex and says I can have one night stands

Q.   My wife is 51 and I am 48. She says that she no longer feels like sex with any man, although she will reluctantly have sex with me to keep me happy. She has orgasms about half the times we have sex, but says twice a week is too much and that I ...

A.   25 October 2010: Hi Gamine, Thank You for that. I have to admit, I have not thought of it in those terms. How can I get my marriage sorted without unconditional surrender. By having a vasectomy I was indeed trying to have some control over the future of our ... (read in full...)

My wife doesn't want sex and says I can have one night stands

Q.   My wife is 51 and I am 48. She says that she no longer feels like sex with any man, although she will reluctantly have sex with me to keep me happy. She has orgasms about half the times we have sex, but says twice a week is too much and that I ...

A.   24 October 2010: Dear Jilly, I agree that not much else can be gleaned here. The reason I talk about another man in my wife's bed despite the fact she says that she is not attracted to any man is simple. In my experience what she says and what she means are often ... (read in full...)

My wife doesn't want sex and says I can have one night stands

Q.   My wife is 51 and I am 48. She says that she no longer feels like sex with any man, although she will reluctantly have sex with me to keep me happy. She has orgasms about half the times we have sex, but says twice a week is too much and that I ...

A.   24 October 2010: Thank you Jilly. I am not sure though that if there was another guy sleeping with my wife in our marital bed, that it would go down well with the boys. I mean in preference to the current situation. It is not just an excuse. Also, when I look aro... (read in full...)

My wife doesn't want sex and says I can have one night stands

Q.   My wife is 51 and I am 48. She says that she no longer feels like sex with any man, although she will reluctantly have sex with me to keep me happy. She has orgasms about half the times we have sex, but says twice a week is too much and that I ...

A.   23 October 2010: Yes, Jilly, you have said pretty much what I have been thinking for a long time. I was brought up in the days when marriage was considered a life time commitment, and I still do. I also have to think of the welfare of my boys, do I really want ... (read in full...)

My wife doesn't want sex and says I can have one night stands

Q.   My wife is 51 and I am 48. She says that she no longer feels like sex with any man, although she will reluctantly have sex with me to keep me happy. She has orgasms about half the times we have sex, but says twice a week is too much and that I ...

A.   23 October 2010: Dear Jilly, Thanks for that. Where you say Helllooo, having her cake and eating it. Does this mean she wants the perks of being married without having to be a wife. In other words having everything her way. It seems like that to me. How long has ... (read in full...)

My wife doesn't want sex and says I can have one night stands

Q.   My wife is 51 and I am 48. She says that she no longer feels like sex with any man, although she will reluctantly have sex with me to keep me happy. She has orgasms about half the times we have sex, but says twice a week is too much and that I ...

A.   21 October 2010: Thank you all for your help and advice, it is very much appreciated. There have been a few quesions in your replies. She has started the menapause, but her interest in sex dwindled significantly about 14 years ago after our youngest child was born... (read in full...)

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