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Do I confront her about the way she avoids me?

Q.   Okay so I've been seeing this girl for a few months and we have a lot in common. We knew from the first day we met that we'd probably end up really liking each other. A couple weeks ago I stayed over at her place and we went out to breakfast the ...

A.   16 December 2007: I think you should comfront her about it. But if she keeps avoiding you, then go for somebody who will actually appreciate you. Hope it helps. x... (read in full...)

What should I do about the bloke from work?

Q.   iya.. i no to most after reading this you will think i am a complete plank but anyway i have worked in this bar for a while now and a new bloke has just started, i was the first person who actually spoke to him and we started chatting and started ...

A.   16 December 2007: Wait until he leaves his gf. When he does, dont rush into things. Just wait afew weeks beofre going public. But if he cant dump her for you, hes not worth it hun. And you really need to dump that bf of yours. Be safe. Hope it helps. ... (read in full...)

He tells me I'm phitt, but walks away when I see him with his mates.

Q.   hi well me and this guy at school have been flirtin like mad on msn. as soon as i come online or he comes online he'll click on me and weed start chattin. were always flirtin-and saying things like i love u or things like your phitt. he is usually ...

A.   16 December 2007: Ask him straight up if he likes you or if he's just playing games. Ask him why he's turning away around his mates. But if he is turning away form you around his mates, I think he's not really worth it. But get answers first. Hope I helped! x... (read in full...)

She's my husband's psycho ex fling and she won't get lost! Should I have a talk with her?

Q.   Here is my case: Everyone has an ex, some get along great some, well, they don't. A couple of months ago I found a letter, it was from my husbands ex, it was disturbing and upsetting, reason being, apperantly he did not know this girl (we had gott...

A.   13 December 2007: Instead of him telling her, maybe it is your turn to try and get it through her thick head. Hope this helps! Also try blocking her. Or you could go the extreme mile and change phone number,cell number, email,etc.. Or tell her you have moved and i... (read in full...)

My fiance who I love dearly is a former cheater, now a woman at work is tempting me to have an affair. What to do?

Q.   I have been in a relationship with my woman for 12 years. We are still both not married. We were engaged early this millenium until I found out from her electronic mail that she's been cheating on me. We mended that problem and I stayed. We are in...

A.   12 December 2007: It's a really bad idea. Just because she made a silly mistake dosnt mean you should. It can really ruin your life. Only bad can come of it. If you love her, then you'l be faithful. Dont listen to them. x... (read in full...)

I'm too scared to call him.

Q.   hey people, so i need help, i really like this lad, hes in the year above me at school and hes on study leave at the mo. i feel like im going mental without him here. i think he knows i like himand we flirt when i see him but i havent seen him in ...

A.   10 December 2007: Im in the same situation but its a little more..well..anyway! If you have his number then I think you should definately call him! Good luck! x... (read in full...)

My relationship with my child's father is up and down--help!

Q.   Sometimes, I don't know what to do without being a beotch to my daughter's dad. If I'm being mean to him it makes him want me more but if I'm being nice, it's like I've done something wrong. To make a long story short, I've been in and out ...

A.   10 December 2007: I think either you should just block him out completely, talk to your daughter about it or remain friends with him and dont let the past ruin anything. The past is the past and if he tries to bring it up, just tell him to change the subject.... (read in full...)

Breaking up gently...dettaching...

Q.   I have been dating a guy for about two weeks, and during those two weeks we've seen each other basically everyday. At first I thought it was great, I thought this is what I needed, someone to share my life with. But lately, I've realized that ...

A.   9 December 2007: Tell him that your not ready for a relationship but hope to be friends. Offer his things back if he dosnt accpet the friendship. Also ask for the key back to your house. But if he does accept the friendship then still offer his things back but let... (read in full...)

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