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My partner is masturbating to online porn. I'm disgusted and he blames me!

Q.   I have just found out my partner is masturbating over the net. This disgusts me and I feel very sick by this. My partner says I'm not giving him enough in the bedroom. Now I feel I can't give him anything as I'm so hurt. What can I do?...

A.   25 October 2005: It is only natural to feel shocked by your partners act, especially if this was the first you knew of it. It is often the case that in this situation your partner probaly felt embarrased by what he was up to and immediately turned it back on you by ... (read in full...)

We're having another go at counselling, but he's still looking at porn on the web!

Q.   My husband and I have been married for 4 years. Three years ago and two years ago I found porn in the house. L told him one more time and I'd throw him out as this really repulses me. We went to marriage counselling and discussed this but I got ...

A.   25 October 2005: I understand your despair with your H, It is so frustrating to find this out when you thought he understood your feelings on this. The problem is Porn can become an addiction to some people, and therefore even though your H knows it disgusts you he ... (read in full...)

I'm disgusted and hurt that my husband visited a prostitute, then lied about it!

Q.   I found out five weeks ago that my husband visited a prostitute in February. He claimed he couldn't do anything as he wasn't aroused. It now transpires that indeed he was able to climax, as she perfomed a hand job on him !! I feel so disguste...

A.   23 October 2005: Dear Kel Thank you so much for your response to my situation, I feel much stronger from your comments, I do hope that you are able to sort out your problems,, This porn thing is so dangerous if it isn't handled properly, as I can see now it star... (read in full...)

What kind of a Christmas present can I get my boyfriend?

Q.   Heya, I know this may be a silly question but I was wondering what sort of Christmas present do you get a guy? I mean, me and my boyfriend are both 14 yrs old, and we love each other very much (yes I know, its only young love but this is for real) ...

A.   21 October 2005: Why not send him a Teddy gram with a personal message of your choice printed on Teddies T shirt Try www.bearinagift.com... (read in full...)

Can I recover from the shock and loss of trust after my husband visited a prostitute?

Q.   My husband (together for a total of 10 years) has just told me he slept with a prostitute and thought he had caught something but had not. We have two young children. He promises it was just the once and would never do it again. We were having ...

A.   21 October 2005: Dear Anon I don't know when you found this out, but I have exactly the same situation with my husband ( 8 years).. I found out my husband visited a prostitute back in February ( I only found this out five weeks ago) My husband is a very placid a... (read in full...)

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