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I was married for 25 years, then divorced. We brought up two sons and a daughter. I am currently in a long term relationship, but live alone - with two cats! I've worked in offices, shops, and am a mature University graduate.

How do you know if your guy ejaculated inside you?

Q.   My question is for the column: How do know if your guy ejaculated inside you? I recently had sex with my guy and we finished and he said "I came." I wasn't sure if he was telling the truth or not. 1 because I didn't feel it. 2 I didn't feel an...

A.   1 November 2009: It's possible for a man to climax without ejaculating.... (read in full...)

I'm finding it hard to think that the kind, attentive, wonderful man that I fell in love with has disappeared at the moment or even forever.

Q.   I'm having problems in my relationship with my boyfriend. We have been going out for 2 1/2 years in an LDR. My boyfriend has been working really hard lately, so much so that I haven't seen him since the end of September whereas we were seeing each ...

A.   1 November 2009: There are two answers to this question: 1. He's exhausted from overwork and has lost sight of his original goal of you living together as a couple. Or 2. He's moving on without you. Either way you must have an answer from him because ... (read in full...)

Why is she confused and doubting her feelings for me? I have done nothing wrong

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been dating since April, although we were having casual sex for about a month prior. We got engaged in August, just as she moved to China for a year. We had spent almost all of that time prior to her moving away in each ...

A.   1 November 2009: It is quite natural to sometimes be confused about our feelings. But anyone who refuses to speak to someone who is, at very least, their friend, is playing power games. This is emotional cruelty.... (read in full...)

He must think I'm so stupid!

Q.   I dont know if i am over reacting but, recently i found on my boyfriends laptop a number of folders of girls pictures which must equal to over 300 pictures of half naked girls etc including my best friends! But he said sorry and that he forgot i...

A.   1 November 2009: The only person you should be impressing is - yourself! You deserve better. Move on.... (read in full...)

Married! How do I get over this huge crush?

Q.   I met my wife 15 years ago. It started as one night thing that just got extended... I have later realized that I never had a change to have big crush on her first. We just started being together because it was convenient and we liked each other. ...

A.   1 November 2009: Sounds like you and your wife have bonded i.e. are great friends/partners. What you are experiencing with the woman at work is Romantic Infatuation. It's exciting! But it comes at an enormous price. I can guarantee that breaking the bond you have ... (read in full...)

Dating problems: covered in freckles, bi, and overweight!

Q.   ok well I am 18 and I am having trouble dating I am bi and there are no girls or guys looking at me to date is there something wrong with me. I am a little over weight and covered in freckles but no one seems to like me...

A.   1 November 2009: Sorry you're having trouble dating. Looks aren't everything, but I know that weight issues can sap confidence. Looking after yourself by eating wisely and taking exercise should trim any excess weight - and will boost your self-esteem. I can't gi... (read in full...)

Should I have him visit to see how he feels?

Q.   I dated TJ during the summer. We had a good relationship and we had a lot of fun together. I was going away to school so I decided to end things. After Almost two monthes of guys here I realized that they just want to hook up and I'm not ok with ...

A.   1 November 2009: I don't see any harm in having him visit. As you say - you had a good relationship and had a lot of fun together. When you meet again you will know how you feel about him. As you say he is a 'great guy', maybe you've already answered your own ... (read in full...)

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