How can I attract a girl without coming off strong or seemingly putting a lot of effort into it?
Q. I'm not sure if this is a specific question or just kind of an emptying of my head, but I'll try to make it as clear and brief as possible. I've just come to the realization that every relationship, or even just situations where a girl lik...
A. 18 February 2011: Thank you lockhart, I guess it might have been better to not go out with them, but if I didn't then I never would have dated anyone, so it's hard to decide. And these girl that "fell-into my lap", I did like them a little, I guess they just weren't ... (read in full...)
How can I attract a girl without coming off strong or seemingly putting a lot of effort into it?
Q. I'm not sure if this is a specific question or just kind of an emptying of my head, but I'll try to make it as clear and brief as possible. I've just come to the realization that every relationship, or even just situations where a girl lik...
A. 16 February 2011: It's not that I don't put the effort in or that I don't want to, it's just that it seems when I'm trying to get a girl to like me they never end up liking me and I end up with someone who I wasn't even trying for. So I was saying that when I ... (read in full...)
How can I resurect an old crush?
Q. Ok, I'll try to make this as understandable as I can. Basically, I have liked a girl for some time. Back in grade 7 she asked me to dance at our schools Halloween dance, and I just fell in love. She had liked me for some time before that mostly ...
A. 18 September 2010: Thank you for saying that. I wasn't 100% sure I did everything right.
Actually, Jill (I may as well tell you her name now)and her girl friend who happens to be a very good friend of mine asked me for a night at the movies tonight. My friend p... (read in full...)
How can I resurect an old crush?
Q. Ok, I'll try to make this as understandable as I can. Basically, I have liked a girl for some time. Back in grade 7 she asked me to dance at our schools Halloween dance, and I just fell in love. She had liked me for some time before that mostly ...
A. 15 September 2010: Haha, you did!
Um, actually today was kind of amazing.
We have the same spare together and it was first period today. We were the only ones in the cafeteria and I just went and sat with her, chatted, and did some homework.
Then the next p... (read in full...)
I know you can't tell me WHO to choose, but HOW can I choose between two great girls?
Q. Alright, so I've got a "happy" problem; there are two girls who like me. Some time ago I asked a girl out. We'll call her Brunette. She couldn't go on our first date; she had work. She couldn't go on our second date; she had to babysit. And she coul...
A. 26 June 2010: Well, yeah. I said in the original question that I've kind of made a commitment to Brunette, and to just go and start dating Redhead would make me feel like an ass.
And I do like Brunette a lot and things have already sort of progressed with her... (read in full...)
I know you can't tell me WHO to choose, but HOW can I choose between two great girls?
Q. Alright, so I've got a "happy" problem; there are two girls who like me. Some time ago I asked a girl out. We'll call her Brunette. She couldn't go on our first date; she had work. She couldn't go on our second date; she had to babysit. And she coul...
A. 23 June 2010: Wow, thanks for all the responses guys.
The majority of you said to kind of spend time with both of them and make a decision further down the road.
I see the benefit of that, but as itspattay pointed out, there are some negative affects too.
Ho... (read in full...)
First date--I have the ability to make people feel awkward! HELP!
Q. Ok, so I asked this girl out to a movie with a group of friends about two weeks ago. I'm not normally so balsy (asking someone out who you don't know at all is pretty weird at my school) but I'm really attracted to this girl so I just went for it. ...
A. 6 May 2010: Hey guys,
Thanks so much for all the advice. I really appreciate it. A lot of what you guys said is stuff that I kinda planned to do, but didn't have much confidence in working. So, now I'm more confident about it.
Oh, and just to clarify: I re... (read in full...)
I'm worried my ex will date my best friend and hurt him.
Q. So, almost a year ago I dated my now ex for about two months. It doesn't sound like very long, but we were friends for a very long time before we started dating and I guess that's why the break up had more of an impact than most two month break ...
A. 19 March 2010: He hasn't actually asked her yet. He told me he was going to several times before, but that time it seemed more serious and more probable then any of the others.
I definitely agree with you Tisha. I just need to ignore it and take myself out of t... (read in full...)
I'm worried my ex will date my best friend and hurt him.
Q. So, almost a year ago I dated my now ex for about two months. It doesn't sound like very long, but we were friends for a very long time before we started dating and I guess that's why the break up had more of an impact than most two month break ...
A. 16 March 2010: He's going to ask her out tomorrow... (read in full...)
I'm worried my ex will date my best friend and hurt him.
Q. So, almost a year ago I dated my now ex for about two months. It doesn't sound like very long, but we were friends for a very long time before we started dating and I guess that's why the break up had more of an impact than most two month break ...
A. 15 March 2010: Thanks Kenj,
I guess I should just see it through, and be there for him.
Thanks a lot for writing Tisha,
I've taken your advice, and I told him that me and my ex aren't friends and that its very awkward every time we hang out. He was pretty un... (read in full...)
She ended it out of the blue. How do I get her back?
Q. So I dated this girl for about 2 months and we both liked each other a lot. After getting back from a trip she calls me and breaks up with me. She didn't say why. We've been separated for about 3 or 4 months now and I've realized that I really w...
A. 22 December 2009: Thanks Mandy. Things have kind of changed since I wrote that; a few more things have happened and I was made aware of some things that happened a long time ago. So, I've decided to just let it go, and it was actually a very easy decision. It was ... (read in full...)
She ended it out of the blue. How do I get her back?
Q. So I dated this girl for about 2 months and we both liked each other a lot. After getting back from a trip she calls me and breaks up with me. She didn't say why. We've been separated for about 3 or 4 months now and I've realized that I really w...
A. 13 December 2009: So, I thought I would update you guys on a few things that I'm having trouble with. I have made some contact with her. It's definitely more contact then before, but its still awkward and we've only said brief words to each other in a group setting. ... (read in full...)
She ended it out of the blue. How do I get her back?
Q. So I dated this girl for about 2 months and we both liked each other a lot. After getting back from a trip she calls me and breaks up with me. She didn't say why. We've been separated for about 3 or 4 months now and I've realized that I really w...
A. 19 November 2009: Thanks alot for writing Pepper,
I do think making friends first is the best way to do it because that's how we started the first time. Although, I kind of worry that she could think that some of the ways I go about this are too much like last tim... (read in full...)
She ended it out of the blue. How do I get her back?
Q. So I dated this girl for about 2 months and we both liked each other a lot. After getting back from a trip she calls me and breaks up with me. She didn't say why. We've been separated for about 3 or 4 months now and I've realized that I really w...
A. 18 November 2009: Thanks, Tisha
I'm really happy that someone thinks I have somewhat of a good attitude and handle on this. It's very reassuring. I do kind of fear that she might just want to move on or be "free", but I think it's really worth a try.
lol. I'... (read in full...)
She ended it out of the blue. How do I get her back?
Q. So I dated this girl for about 2 months and we both liked each other a lot. After getting back from a trip she calls me and breaks up with me. She didn't say why. We've been separated for about 3 or 4 months now and I've realized that I really w...
A. 16 November 2009: Thanks Tisha and Kapiti, Tisha, I see your point that you can have a good conversation with someone without it being romantic. And when we did talk it was kind of friend-ish talk, but in that there was also a lot of more-than-friend... (read in full...)
She ended it out of the blue. How do I get her back?
Q. So I dated this girl for about 2 months and we both liked each other a lot. After getting back from a trip she calls me and breaks up with me. She didn't say why. We've been separated for about 3 or 4 months now and I've realized that I really w...
A. 15 November 2009: I don't want to pressure her into anything. I just feel like at this point I don't really know if she likes me or not, and all I really want to do is find that out and work from there. She hasn't initiated contact. That's true. But, if you knew her ... (read in full...)
She ended it out of the blue. How do I get her back?
Q. So I dated this girl for about 2 months and we both liked each other a lot. After getting back from a trip she calls me and breaks up with me. She didn't say why. We've been separated for about 3 or 4 months now and I've realized that I really w...
A. 15 November 2009: I think you're right about her trying to let me down easy, but that was a long time ago and I just feel like she could have the feelings she had before. I really want to do this. It just feels right. I just don't know how to do it.... (read in full...)
She ended it out of the blue. How do I get her back?
Q. So I dated this girl for about 2 months and we both liked each other a lot. After getting back from a trip she calls me and breaks up with me. She didn't say why. We've been separated for about 3 or 4 months now and I've realized that I really w...
A. 15 November 2009: Sorry, I forgot to add: I have had a lot of time to think about things and I have talked to people and I'm pretty sure I identified why we broke up. I didn't take her out, just the two of us enough and I kissed her a lot when she didn't really like ... (read in full...)
Why did my girlfriend break up with me?
Q. I had been dating Hannah for about two months, and I thought things were going pretty well. A few weeks into summer she went to her friend's cottage and she didn't tell me how long for. She got back and I tried messaging her and calling her, but she ...
A. 20 July 2009: So I just found out through a mutual friend of my ex and myself, after a lot of coercing that there is another reason that she broke up with me. And somehow this did not help at all. I was already stressing at the possibility of another reason which ... (read in full...)
Why did my girlfriend break up with me?
Q. I had been dating Hannah for about two months, and I thought things were going pretty well. A few weeks into summer she went to her friend's cottage and she didn't tell me how long for. She got back and I tried messaging her and calling her, but she ...
A. 16 July 2009: Thankyou Christina. You're right. I should get over her. Which is what I'm trying to do. It's hard. So far not really winning that whole pain eating battle, but I don't know. And your advice did help. Thankyou.... (read in full...)
Why did my girlfriend break up with me?
Q. I had been dating Hannah for about two months, and I thought things were going pretty well. A few weeks into summer she went to her friend's cottage and she didn't tell me how long for. She got back and I tried messaging her and calling her, but she ...
A. 15 July 2009: Hey Christina, thanks for writing. I believe that she's busy. I guess the only thing that's confusing me is why we had to break up over it. I would've been fine waiting for her. I don't have to talk to her every day to be her boyfriend and it... (read in full...)
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